We were together for 2 years both 34, had a great relationship, we had an extremely close bond, I was very caring and respectful but the last few months she said she felt like I didn't care about her. I admitted i was burying myself in work and house projects which took time away from us. I was recently diagnosed with ADHD which caused a lot of it. She said we needed to take a break because her depression was spiraling and she felt our connection was lost. I agreed because of the stress in both our lives but told her not to give up on us and we can fix this.
Two weeks goes by and I hear nothing, I reached out and it was cordial. A week later I called her asking the boundaries of the break. She seemed indifferent and said she can be here as a friend. I wrote her a text explaining my side and how we could work on things in the future. She blew up on me and was very hurtful saying she never felt like I cared about her. I was devastated and fell into depression. I only reached out once every 2 weeks, I apologized and said that she can always talk to me about anything. She never responded to anything. I went no contact for 2 months and never heard from her.
She kept me on all social media and doesn't really post anything. I reached out one last time just saying hi, took her 2 days but she did respond with a short answer. I let it go after that. She has never once reached out to me for anything since the break. Is this normal? What could that mean? We spent 2 years together and she just dropped off the face of the earth saying she would not cut me out of her life. But it feels that way.
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It's over! Sorry to be blunt, but when people say take a break, they mean a permanent break. Reach out once only. If it gives a negative response, walk away. They won't come back, so reaching out more than once will just make things worse.
Yes if she is done with you!
Probably for some girls.