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Search Results: tell someone you could not be with them
Why does my coworker only interact with others accept me?
I work in a classroom with two other staff. All together four staff (one teacher and three teacher assistants). I used to interact with one of the coworkers (let’s call her Casey) for two weeks when I first started the...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is love according to you?
There was this girl I loved deeply — but of course, it was one-sided. Still, every moment felt like heaven for me. I used to cherish every bit of time when she was part of my life. We never got close in person — it...
Skshravan
Xper 3 Age: 25 Is it uncommon for friends to become lovers?
This is kinda a two part question I got into an argument with a female friend and I believe she is very sheltered based on what she is saying. I told her that there are plenty of friends out there who become lovers...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why should women in the retail and service industry have to suffer creeps or be fired?
It depends on the type of management that you have. But I’ve seen women get written up and even fired before because they told a creepy dude to fuck off or go away. If these women are even professionally nice to these men...
Can people tell me if Im ugly?
I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Woman talk to me they tell me they're secrets they tell me I'm a nice guy and a good friend but the moment I ask someone to buy them a drink or ask them out they disappear. I'm...
Anonymous
(30-35) Okay so story time, PLEASE GIVE ME ANY KIND OF REAL ADVICE-On how to judge someone and know their intentions?
I started talking to this guy who trauma-dumped on day one and said “I love you” by day three. He began buying me things every day—food, clothes, even flower plants—despite not having a job and living off an allowance. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Getting Tons of Attention on app – Real Interest or Red Flags?
Hi everyone! I'm a local Thailand woman and had an experience that honestly left me a little stunned, and I wanted to get some perspectives from people who might know more. I’m a pretty average-looking straight woman —...
judysan
Xper 1 Age: 31 Why are people so damn mean when someone lost a loved one?
I don’t understand why people can say what the fuck they want after your parents, grandparents or whoever dies. Nobody called to check up on me on my first Mother’s Day when my mom died last year. One of the girls that...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you ever date someone who couldn't speak the same language as you?
I met this guy last year whilst working together. He knows no English and we used to communicate through just joking around and one or two words. We got on really well even though we couldn't understand the words that...
Anonymous
(25-29) What would you do with this EMAIL ISSUE?
I have an email address of the form <fi><mi><ln>@<email>. com where: fi is my first initial, mi is my middle initial, ln is my full last name, and email is the email provider. For example: abname@hotmail. com...
Is it rude that I don’t want my guy friend to come over to my house because my dad embarrasses me when he asks him about a dating?
I don’t have guy friends over because my parents would ask them if they have girlfriends and why don’t they dare me and I’m a great woman. One says we’re good friends but they other three months ago joked and said they I...
Anonymous
(25-29) How would you react to a confession about a fear?
So, I have a severe needle phobia. On the level that I can start shivering if needles are talked about in my vicinity for too long. In November I will have gone 16 years without needles. (Medical ones, I have no problem...
Anonymous
(18-24) Does my coworker like me or just being friendly?
there's a guy that started working at my job a few months ago. So far I know he has a girlfriend according to another coworker. The first time we spoke he was told by someone else to give me some paperwork. He didn't know...
Anonymous
(18-24) Fix myself or find another man first?
I know what the attitudes are towards single women my age. Please try to keep this nice. I don’t open up to people that easily so this really hurts. I recently got dumped and he was straight with me about everything that...
silvermoon84
Yoda Age: 42 How can it be that someone seems like a perfect match for you, and then they decide oh it isn't a fit?
I am just absolutely floored. I had been talking to this woman for 2 1/2 months.. texting a bit, and we've had a decent amount of video/phone calls (11 hours worth), and her schedule is hectic with a new job and a bunch...
Anonymous
(36-45) You ever been in a relationship with someone that kept a Score Card on you? Did you break up with them or resolve the issue?
My ex tried keeping a score card on me , No matter what I did, it was never good enough for her , She would walk around the house pointing out things that I overlooked , like I was supposed to be a Home Inspector 24-7 ,...
I don’t want to tell my boyfriend I hate myself. How do you love someone who struggles to love themselves?
I’ve struggled with self-esteem for years, and while I’m working on it, there are still bad days. I don’t want to burden my boyfriend with how much I dislike myself sometimes. He says my self-criticism pushes him away,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do people like my personality but never like me romantically?
I guess I sound desperate but this is the fact. I was bright academically and I'm still known at the places I went to study as a brilliant student. Every month I receive calls from current students from my school, college...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I wrong for wanting to fix my friend up?
I matchmake. It’s what I do for my friends and not to toot my own horn, but I’m good at it. I’ve brought so many of my friends into happy, healthy relationships that eventually turned into happy marriages. I have one...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does a guy come back to look for a girl repeatedly if he is not into her?
I met a guy who ignored me in college, but years later, through networks, we started talking intensely. He hid from me that he lived with his daughter's mother and was with her. I found out, but we remained friends until...
eli23421cd
Xper 1 Age: 26 