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Are you the type of woman that doesn't see the big deal with Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum? -- or a man who could pass on Scarlett Johansson or Eva Longoria? Do you find that you are pulled toward people that really aren't known for being conventionally good looking, but are because they have a je ne sais quoi about them? Like intelligence, humour, or some defining trait that makes them unique?

Years ago, one of my best friends told me she decided that Louis CK was sexy. She said, "I know it doesn't make sense. A balding ginger. No one gets that." But she said his confidence, humour, and the way he delivered his comedy was so appealing to her. It got me thinking, how many others truly do see beyond the traditional, wild good looks and see a sex appeal underneath what would be either average looks, or unconventional good looks.

We had what I thought was a good sex life etc

We always did new things, loads of oral. He claimed I did some crazy things on top just before he cheated. Said he loved eating me out could do it for hours. Loved how I looked giving him head etc.

Do you think he’s now with her thinking all that’s better with her

Because he cheated and never came back. Or was it purely to avoid the kids. He always complained about having to deal with the kids and didn’t want to do anything with them. Ruined their birthdays cos he wanted to sleep in etc. he refused to spend money and time on them. Said wished never had kids. Left at the start of the year for months without seeing them. Doesn’t treat them ever.

Is it just she accepts he doesn’t wamt them whereas I wanted him to be a dad