I met this amerixan businessman and philanthropist based in Beijing when I had a trip to Beijing in January 2023.
He has been messaging me since then, we messaged each other daily for a month, I messaged him back because I liked the fact that he was so kind always helping people,
he wanted us to date, and wanted to come to my city, I lived in Suzhou back then.
I was not very into this, because first, I wasn’t ready at that time,
second, I was thinking it was impossible to date someone who lived in a different city so far from you, I already had a very unfulfilling LDR experience and naturally didn’t want to have my heart broken again.
third, I was assuming maybe he hoped for sex, why else would man want to travel cities to meet a girl? I made it a point to let him know I am a bit old-fashioned and I gave him some hints he couldn’t expect it.
He still wanted to meet, but I didn’t feel like it.
We stopped messaging after a while.
But every-time he traveled and was near Suzhou he messaged me if I could meet him
and now he is in Shanghai, I also live in Shanghai and he messaged me if I’d like to meet him,
I wonder why does he want to meet me, he must know by now, I won’t have sex with him.
I don’t want to meet him. Because he only messages me when he is in my city. Why would I want to meet him?
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