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I have a crush on a male colleague. We have a flirty relationship and he teases me a lot. We make strong eye contact and he usually looks at me first when he enters the room. I have caught him staring. He has sometimes shown signs of jealousy, for example, getting somewhat annoyed when I had a lift to work off another guy. When I was away on holiday, someone asked if he missed me and he said “it’s quiet”. I have caught him looking at my body before and sometimes he has made sexual jokes (not very often). He does silly things to get my attention and he will tease me.

When we were tipsy, I told him I have a huge crush on him and eventually he admitted he felt the same way. However, recently he has said that he never means anything he says while drunk.

I was joking around today, and I told him “fuck you” to which he said “no thank you”

Do you think he likes me?

My Ex boyfriend of 8 Months told me at the month 8: "I enjoy what we have in the present, I'm not sure if it stays. I don't see a future for us" For me that was a reason to break up. Because till month 8/ he wasn't able to communicate our future, his emotions or anything in regard of our relationship. He wasn't even sure if he wants to move away from home. If I didn't asked I would have never knew how he felt.

My second boyfriend now: After all that I shared with him in the 1 year of our relationship he opened up to me in month 6 but after I ask. Now little by little he can talk about things regarding our relationship but it is still a long way till he can tell me without me asking him what hurts him or not. This makes me very sad. As for now, after all the things I sacrificed for him in regard of time and money he told me: let's try out if it works out."

Am I pathetic to end things because the person doesn't see a future for us?