What do guys get from staring at my covered chest?

[Angelurw]

What do I do if guys STARE at my chest area?

Sometimes guys are in a trance or someshit cause it doesn’t make sense the length they spend staring EVEN DURING CONVERSSTION. I don’t even have huge boobs. Lately I don’t wear a bra so they’re not up in anyone’s face either.

I also don’t try to show cleavage or anything so it’s not like I’m trying to get attention there. I don’t give a damn.

It’s just like wtf are men doing ,,?

I had one guy at work years ago who would stare and look at my boobs a lot and one time it was like he purposefully did it soooo long while talking to me he was technically talking to my boobs. I felt uncomfortable then. I was like wait what the fuccccck. I never call guys out but I’m like wtf is in his brain? Like? My boobs aren’t that huge… what the hell is the fascination?

[_Maya_]

Because guys sexualize women. Simple as that. You are new to the site. Stick around a bit and you'll see the guys that call girls "recreational" use only. They don't hold themselves to the same standards. There is a guy that says "no hymen, no diamond" even tho us girls know that the human can break from sports or tampon use. He doesn't care. He's also single by the way and a hypocrite. Then there are the guys that shit post about women for hours about how awful we all are. How we should just stay in the kitchen and be submissive. These are the same guys that stare at your chest and have wild double standards. That's the reality of the situation. They can do no wrong. If you were showing clevage you'd be recreational use only so be thankful you aren't that.

[Angelurw]

Sucks for them! That garbage should be removed from the site because it’s just promoting hatred

[_Maya_]

You are telling me.

[_Maya_]

Totally with you on that one.

[_Maya_]

Thank you for most helpful opinion!

[laly520]

thats truly sucks
u r being sexualized n ur clothes/body ain't the problem in here but them

[GoGetitGio]

Don’t women sexualize themselves tho? Like not even in a bad way. It’s just true. Like my mom usually dresses conservatively on her 40th b-day she dressed super sexy skin tight bright green neon dress had her boobs out. She ended up bringing home a guy that night and having sex. Like she sexualized herself first didn’t she? She sexualized herself (not typical) to get what she wanted (sex with a younger guy)

[Lliam]

The female form is hard to disguise. They have curvy hips, feminine butts, and their boobs stick out even when they are clothed.

Guys look women over to assess their attractiveness. And if a woman is attractive, guys will wonder what she looks like without clothes. Yes, guys are sexually stimulated by visuals. And boobs are her most apparent feature when she is facing him.

It's impossible for a guy to keep his eyes from glancing, but it's crude for them to ogle. Those kind of guys have no manners, class or respect.

It pisses me off that guys like that are the ones who make women feel uncomfortable in their own bodies when they are around men.

Here's a really cute video about glancing at a women's chest, though, to explain why men can't help it:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ropabptBmLs

[Pillubi]

Glancing and even looking is fine which is not a problem at all. The problem is staring and ogling which a lot of women face.

[Lliam]

@Pillubi. I agree 100%.

[strateguy632]

get? nothing.

just accept it is instinct, call it evolution, human continuity relied on men noticing breasts, or else all the "work" would be "fruitless" before physical maturity. that primal instinct is still here deep in the instinct... just don't over react, be understanding n thankful you were born due to those primitive primitives! (of course staring is far from touching, obviously!)

about cleavage even if you showed some... you are not the attraction! as proven when covered! only instinct... so show cleavage like everyone else. not your fault.

[Friendlybro79]

Some guys don't have manners if they're staring. Your boobs don't have to be big for people to want to look at them but staring is ridiculous.

I'm not you, am not in your shoes dealing with this but just some things to note if you're too frustrated by this to think of this right now. When you look at anyone your eyes will move around. No one usually states in someone's eyes without blinking and most people aren't trying to stare, be rude or make you uncomfortable. Your eyes wander when you're looking at a person and that's normal.

But stone cold staring like you said of a co worker is annoying and weird. You should say something like hey bud quit staring at my tits lol. Ok maybe you shouldn't say that exactly but make him realize where your eyes are. If you're comfortable with that of course.

[bowenw]

Our brains seem to be programmed to look on some primitive level.
This article may help understand it:

https://www.medicaldaily.com/male-researchers-reveal-real-reason-why-men-love-breasts-242754

[GoGetitGio]

Agreed! I’ve seen married men check out my mom’s boobs. I had a friend stare at her boobs in a bikini top like all day. Like gawking at them lol I don’t even know he knew he was doing it

[GoGetitGio]

We like boobs! I dunno they’re just right there. My mom has big boobs for like a small, tiny, petite girl I noticed guys staring at her boobs including my teacher in 10th grade!!! During a conference I ended up not getting in trouble so it worked out. I’m guessing you have big boobs?

[Angelurw]

Is she tall or short?

[GoGetitGio]

My mom? She’s short like 5’1 why?

[Angelurw]

Curiou

[liggang]

That's pretty bizarre if you ask me. Something is wrong with any man that just stands there and stares at your tits.

[DishLady]

If you’re not wearing a bra you’ve just answered your own question. Guys like tatas. On the 6th Day God made tatas… and Adam was f-ing happy, running all of paradise. What’s the mystery?

[dustybiker2]

Men will stare. Just be happy you know you look good.

[GoGetitGio]

Exactly

[DrPepper12]

We really suck at discretion don't we? Sorry. They're all beautiful covered or not, bra on not, small or not... They are just... Well fun bags that are fun!

[Pillubi]

Being discreet is a buildable skill

[GoGetitGio]

@Pillubi it’s hard for guys. I’ve a unique perspective I have a younger and very attractive mom with big boobs I have friends that stare at my mom’s boobs. She was in a bikini top and one of my friends on my team like could not stop staring like gawking at my moms chest. I joker and said whatever you’re looking for isn’t in my mom’s cleavage

[Pillubi]

@GoGetitGio I have come to realise that it isn't hard for them when a male partner is accompanying the woman. I have personally been gawked at while being fully clothed, also men don't stare at me when my partner is beside me which shows that guys are very much capable of self restraint, but they don't care to do so most of the times.

[DrPepper12]

@Pillubi I swear to you we try. We're fighting MILLIONS of years of. evolution. it's HARD!!!

[Pillubi]

Than why is it that guys don't stare at me when I am with my partner?

[DrPepper12]

@Pillubi I don't know. I noticed women with it w/o partner.

[Zayeem]

That's bad. They stare even when u cover urself properly? There's too much creep nowadays.

[Cheerfull009]

You boobs are not beautiful for you, but your boobs attract others, so lucky girl, getting attention of males

[AngryCarl]

It's not that we "get" anything. Your enormous rack is distracting, that's all. How would you react if I wore tight pants with a huge bulge showing?

[FunkyMonkee]

A good idea of what your tits look like.

[moneymagnet24]

What's your boobs size?

[Wise4myage]

They are imagining what your boobs look like.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t stare , so don’t worry about it

[RedInnocent69]

Imagination.