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Is it weird/hypocritical that I'm bothered by large age gaps in relationships when my partner looks 10 years younger than me?

I've always felt big age gaps in relationships were a bit gross (although I wouldn't say I was "disgusted" by them). Yeah, yeah, I know, "consenting adults" but because I think something is in bad taste doesn't mean I...

Ad_Quid_Orator

Guru Age: 36

I don’t know how to get over this, someone help me?

hey everyone, so here’s the situation. last year in October my boyfriend met two girls while he was out at dinner with a group of his friends. he followed them on ig and he DMed one of the girls memes. he didn’t tell...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever dated or been in a relationship with someone that has very high expectations?

They basically look at you to fulfill that for them , instead of working as a team and working towards it together , they will make comments like , so and so did this for their partner , implying they want you to do the...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

If a man doesn't like you when he first see you and is impatient and if I get in relationship with him, does that mean he will treat me bad?

I met a guy one time when I was out in public and I think he is cute. he look pissed and yelled at me

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do you cope, while you wait on love and stability?

Time started: 2:04am I don't think it's right to start dating someone or trying to pursue someone when you're not in a good position in life. If it's a chronic problem and you learned to manage it , I think it's ok....

Wuai201

Xper 6 Age: 29

How can I get a comitted relationship at age 28? Why guys only want sex and no girlfriend?

I need help. Ik everyone is tired or don’t believe I never had a boyfriend. Well it’s true I never had a boyfriend. I need help. guys don’t want a girlfriend, they all say they had many gfs before , or thier parents...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Starting conversation with gym mate?

So I recently joined a gym almost 1 month ago near my house and there's a really pretty girl I am trying to talk to for several days but I can't think of anything to keep conversation going after 'hi' 'hello'. And that's...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

As an old, single, and ugly black man in a city full of racist Spanish people, how non-existant is dating for me?

As the title says I'm an ugly black guy (yes I know I'm ugly as I have been told this multiple times by both men and women and that I look like a turtle) in a city with more than half the population being Spanish people...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, does anyone ever like my kinda guy?

I am more of an academic type of nerdy guy (29) than the mainstream comic books/video games type. I'm working toward a PhD in theoretical physics right now, started PhD a ittle late because of two Masters degrees...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, how would you react if a woman told you she doesn't expect loyalty from you?

I'm seeing a man, he wants a relationship with me, but honestly, I don't believe men can genuinely enjoy monogamy: it doesn't matter how much a man likes me or is happy with me, I do not believe a man can only want one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I pique his curiosity naturally or because of my ex? What is he up to? Why did he wait to talk to me?

Recently, a guy that I've seen around for 4 years approached me. We started talking. A couple of weeks in, he said I'm not what I seem to be. He says he has some female friends and asked if we could be friends. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when a guy says you're not who I thought you were and then ask for your phone number? Based on my situation, is that a bad thing?

So I've had this happen a couple of times but I get mixed results so I can't really pinpoint anything. But when I'm at work, I'm quiet and I try to stay to myself. Sometimes, guys approach me, and they've seen me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think women have wife material still left in them?

I hardly ever give any girls a chance because I just look at how they dress, listen to what they say, how many relationships they’ve been in, how their career is so important. Just makes you want to run and focus on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I hardly ever give any girls a chance because I just look at how they dress, listen to what they say, how many relationships they’ve been in, how their career is so important. Just

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What is the best initial response to jealousy?

I've experienced partner getting jealous of me for no reason, and the same in my past with previous relationship. I did not understand fully how badly it effected me with the ex til some time after my ex and I were...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do I trust my future girlfriend/wife to be honest with me?

One of the main things I want in life other than achieving my goals is to be with an honest straight woman who loves me just as much as I love her. But I'm losing hope and trust and I already have trust issues....

Johnsmth

Xper 2 Age: 25

My ex and I are caught up in a really toxic situation?

Preface: I’m not looking for definitive answers or explanations (because there really aren’t any). I’m more interested in hearing other people’s opinions. My ex and I dated a few years ago for about six months, then...

Anonymous

(25-29)