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I don’t think they do. My specific “ones” were people I didn’t really like but I did it because I felt like I was supposed to. Plus we barely talked; I was an exceptionally shy child and would only giggle when anyone talked to me. I went out with 3 of them with mine or their families. I again didn’t talk to them. It didn’t last long the shortest was like 5 days and the longest was like 6 months with minimal talking. We just sent hearts to each other.
I started “dating” in 4th grade and I’ve not dated anyone since the “last” in 7th.
Is it fair to say I’ve never been in a relationship?

I’ve been emotionally committed to a guy for almost 3 years, I don’t think he ever emotionally committed to me though. We went on a 4 dates when we first met & never slept together. He’s stayed in touch with me on FaceTime through a deployment & him moving across the country. Emotionally were closer than ever, we talk for hours multiple days a week, but he recently told me he doesn’t want a LDR so I told him I’d move & he didn’t say anything about it. I know he’ll continue to call & share with me like I’m his girlfriend, but he isn’t moving this forward or willing to try.

I really love him so I don’t want to cut him out, but I don’t see another option except saying “Unless you’re ready to commit or give me real space in your life, please don’t call me”.

I’m looking for a man’s perspective, please give me advice or say what you think I should do.