Search Results: still have feelings for a guy

How can I heal from this? Was I wrong in my reaction?

I had been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. Him and I had a history prior to this for about 2 years, and I think he knew my feelings for him had never really gone away. Things never ended well between us before, but he...

sunshineflowers789

Xper 1 Age: 27

What’s it mean if a guy at work still stares at me and started talking to me after he was ignoring me because I started ignoring him because he kept?

Insulting my looks? he’s just a critical guy in general I notice he kinda does it to others. It’s fuckkng annoying and hurtful when he talks about my insecurities tho. At first he sounded hurt when I ignored him...

Greicifh

Xper 1 Age: 35

Is my boyfriend wrong for needing reassurance that I won’t cheat back on him?

So my boyfriend of 3 years got caught cheating with his ex. We’re working it out. However, I recently admitted to him that I briefly thought about cheating back as revenge. It was a thought that popped up in the midst of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Likelihood of this guy I’m seeing talking to other people even though we spend like 3/7 of the week together?

So I’ve been seeing this guy for a month. He’s older than me like 10 years. And well we’ve sort of formed a situationship that’s exclusive or at least we promised to tell each other if we hooked up with or wanted to see...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do people usually come back to their partners after pushing them away during a depressive episode?

I have been dating this guy since February. (24F & 27M) He asked me out, pulled away after our first date because he didn’t expect us to hit it off as well as we did. We ended up staying friends but still kind of dating....

jessst

Xper 4 Age: 30

My crush sent me a follow request out of nowehere?

ok so this begins back 3 years ago in 2021. i had just joined this tuition for maths because i was failing in maths miserably, so a guy used to come there. he was 2 years older than me. over time, i developed a huge crush...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Are gender roles still a thing?

I know traditional roles for men and women always were a thing in the past. I’m wondering if, they’ve diminished with my generation and future ones. My best girl friend is a real tomboy with the baggy, plain clothes and...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Is this a red flag? Or just someone that genuinely knows what he wants?

So this guy I’ve been talking to about two months. We text every single day, and he calls me every single day. We have phone calls about the most random stuff at least for an hour and a half every time. The thing is, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was I wrong for leaving him for not making time for me?

Why is it that the guy I dated never seems to make time for me, despite claiming he really likes me? He talks to me every day and often vents about his life, but our actual time together has been so limited. We've only...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I need to inform that I never in my life thought I’d get feelings for a married man?

We work together at the same department literally almost see each other every day, and I believe it’s the way he approached me from day one, he is a good looking and my type so that makes it even worse but that’s not the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why don’t men just leave the woman alone that they don’t like?

I’ve been talking to a guy for a few months. Things started out pretty good until he started to display red flags. The honeymoon and love bombing phase had finally come to an end and we went from getting along to him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

The guy I imagined getting reacquainted with wants to set ‘boundaries’ by not talking to me but won’t tell me the reason why?

Understand that a few days ago , discussed in an original post, I had written a letter to a guy that I thought would patch up our problems and in order to get us reacquainted with each other in a plantonic way. I had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I tell me girl friend to stop snapchating other guys?

She told me she will not stop. But it’s making me feel very uncomfortable. Being available to other guys like this feels disrespectful to me and our relationship. She says I need to trust her. But it’s still making me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is being a virgin just so boring that no one would be interested in such a person?

So I never thought about it this way until very recently. I'm a 25 year old woman and I'm "STILL" a virgin. It's not that I was never asked out by anyone. It's just that I've stayed a virgin due to my choice. I always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I get him to hang out? Should I throw in the towel?

There’s this guy I’ve know since high school, he’s extremely attractive! We talked on & off, never actually hung out then. We’d try but nothing ever stuck. A few years ago we reconnected through mutual acquaintances. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do?

So, I have had a crush on this guy since last year. We’re both in high school, and we’re both in AVID (reasons for this detail will come up later). He’s really sweet, funny, smart, and he’s an overall gentleman. He gets...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Girl's Behavior

Actually busy or no longer care?

So there's this girl that I've now known for 2 years and we're great friends. She used to like me when we first met but the feeling wasn't mutual. We would go out twice a week or something but that was until July. She...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What would you do if your partner (in a long distance relationship) is not giving u enough attention?

I am in relationship with this girl since last 2 months but we have been friend since last 11 months. I got to know her as my best friends girlfriend but they had a falling out and they broke up 10 months back and...

AvgCollegeGuy

Xper 1 Age: 22