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For context, this man was married to his wife for like a good 12 years. A few years back he was in a car accident due to reckless driving that has ended up in almost complete paralysis of his legs. Last year she eventually left him, and they share four kids under the age of 9.

He said things were rocky prior to the breakup with her saying some particularly nasty things and blaming him for his accident etc. They started to argue a lot and the relationship collapsed. She’s now very bitter toward him, however, I think she’s been hoping to get back together and fix things with him, but he is refusing her advances and saying he’s moved on.

He’s keen to meet up with me. However, I know exactly how his ex feels in her position. I know exactly how it feels for the person you love to move on with someone new when all you want to do is fight for your relationship. I understand she may have left the relationship, but they share 4 kids together. And maybe she is having some regrets. I don’t want to be that woman that swoops in and gets in the middle of that sort of thing, especially where young children are involved. What are your thoughts?

place I use to work at I

use to give my coworker

rides to and from work. Also

to Walmart and the bank and

sometimes her second job.

She gives me gas money.

She doesn't have a driver's

license or a car. She usually

takes a uber. She told me

sometimes she would rather

ask me to take her instead

of a uber. I told her sometimes

I can't always take her and she

shouldn't always expect me to give

her rides. Not only do I have to

drop her off I have to pick her up

also. Is it wrong of me not

wanting to give her rides?

What should I tell her when she

ask for rides when she expects me

to do it? It makes me feel like

I'm obligated to do it but it is

not my responsibility to take her

where she needs to go.

The darker ex-slave boys want white girls so they feel like winners. It’s aspirational, not because she’s a better person but because she can be shown-off happily. Also it helps him feel like he’s able to “steal her” from white men.

It’s so embarrassing to watch these ex-slaves. They want to only pick white girls and expect white boys to exclusively pick non-white girls but that never happens.