Search Results: end to a first date

What are the main red flags you try to avoid in dating?

Mine are: A girl who makes uncontrollable physical flaws (like lack of height, small dick etc) a dealbreaker (also a girl who would dump/reject a guy PRIMARILY because he developed undesirable physical characteristics,...

JHAYES317

Xper 6 Age: 27

Is he really serious about me?

I have been seeing this guy recently. We first met when we were in uni but he dated one of my friends and I had to end the relationship. 4 years later I meet him again but under different circumstances he is married to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend is showing another woman affection. Should I be concerned? How should I approach the matter?

I have noticed my boyfriend showing affection to this married lady he was speaking to before we entered our relationship. I have had an incident when we first started dating where he told me he was going somewhere and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Friend who's in a poly relationship wants to date me?

Ex poly men seeking advice So one of my ex girlfriend wants to have a poly relationship but it isn't who I am anymore. She currenly has a boyfriend she just had a kid with they have a girlfriend they both sleep with....

pandaking2p12

Xper 4 Age: 31

I noticed a shift in my boyfriend's behavior. Should I wait or call?

On Friday last week we had a date. He asked for sex in my car (I told him that it's not going to happen cause I'm not comfortable doing it for the first time with him there). Plus we had an agreement that he will take me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

I've never been this low in my whole life. How to cope with failure in your early 20s if you've always been successful before?

In high school I used to be a 'chad' (I could easily 'get' girls) because I was very authentic and confident. I was also a top student. I thought I was destined for greatness. At university I had my first serious...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some people blatantly stare at a girl (like they want to catch their attention) and later deny it and pretend they were never into her?

Guy had a tiny interest in me (kept glancing at me from across the room etc and his friends noticed.) and stared because he wanted a signs from me to approach, I was too shy so I ignored. 4 years later he finds out I did...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Loneliness, what a b*tch?

For the first time in my life, I can admit that I am indeed lonely, it’s a sinking feeling. I do think about going on a date but I just feel like I’m just wasting my time because my priority at this point is my family (im...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I let go of someone I really. cared about?

When it comes to love I tend to fall face and hard. About a month ago now me and girl I was close friends with and interested in had a falling out. She had asked me out in the past and had been very flirty with me...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

Meeting up for a first date. If everything goes well and the date stretches long, then ends in sex. How likely is a second date?

Or is the tone automatically set for friends with benefits, no chance for a real relationship

DreamCrescent

Xper 7 Age: 39

Should I do anything about a guy from over a year ago who keeps popping into my head?

Sorry for the length in advance. About 1.5 years ago I met this guy on bumble and we went on about 5 dates before I ended things. The last date was a hike and he was fairly late with minimal reasoning/was not a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

First date set up tips?

Hey! So, I matched with this girl on a dating app. Currently, I'm kinda in a place where I'm not sure what I want (and I've been upfront with her about it), but she's looking for "someone who wants to build up to a...

kandl97

Xper 1 Age: 28

How do you feel about broken promises?

I used to not hold promises that highly in regard and now I remember why. He said we could start trying for a family once he finishes school and once he has the money to start his business. I feared this could take...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Should I let this one go?

I met a guy at a dinner through a good friend of mine. I thought he was cool and asked my friend for his insta and dmed him if he would like to get coffee sometime. He said he would love to and was thinking about asking...

Hippydippu

Xper 1 Age: 28

Family & Friends

I messed up right now, had a massive argument. What do you think?

I'll give a little bit of context here so I decided to date my best friend a couple days ago it was my first time ever dating. I had my first time with her and everything. She ended up cheating on me within a couple days...

Cody2004

Xper 4 Age: 20

Guys, Is this guy done with me?

So I met this guy 2 weeks ago and he gave me his number and told me he hoped to hear from me. So I texted him so he had my number. We went out on a coffee date 5 days later which lasted 3 hours. After the date he walked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy being vulnerable with me?

So I share a lot on here because this is my advice platform (my friends can only help me so much). I’m certain this guy is into me, we hold a lot of eye contact and speak to each other a lot. We text each other (it’s not...

Sunshinexoxo95

Xper 2 Age: 30

Did it meant anything or no when we hold hands/tight hug for a ONS?

There was a guy off a dating app, we talked for a few weeks in January and he was very sweet to me. He asked me to go on our first date at an anime convention because he knew I like anime. But we have opposite...

Anonymous

(30-35)