Search Results: how do you get over a break up

What would you do if your partner (in a long distance relationship) is not giving u enough attention?

I am in relationship with this girl since last 2 months but we have been friend since last 11 months. I got to know her as my best friends girlfriend but they had a falling out and they broke up 10 months back and...

AvgCollegeGuy

Xper 1 Age: 22

Girl's Behavior

I'm starting to think I can't be myself around women? Am I right?

I'm 32 years old, at the time of this question. The longest I've ever dated anyone was for 2 months. A large majority of the time, on very rare occassions when I actually do go on a date with someone, I either get ghosted...

tstarr17

Xper 6 Age: 33

Im in love with a taken man, im a terrible person and I dont know what to do?

I've been working with this man for 3 years, he's a manger at my work and for the first 2 years I never saw him in a romantic way. If anything I didn't like him because he used to try and tell me off a lot for just having...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How should I feel?

My ex just told me he is still not over me during my grieving time. I just lost a family member so the timing is just so off. Don't know how to feel honestly. He didn't say he wanted to get back together though so I...

Simslover92

Influencer Age: 34

Family & Friends

How do I tell my brother I hate his girlfriend?

My little brother is 18 and he's just gotten his first girlfriend who he met at college. Her name his chloe and she's also 18. She loves social media and is very big into her insta and tiktok and wants to be a influencer...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Spotify Mind Games?

I recently reconnected with an old flame of mine from high school. I kept him company over text one night while he got drunk and we spoke about what happened between us and why things didn't work out. A few days later he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you find it easier to get over a break up if you spend some time being single or if you move on as quickly as possible?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

He ghosted me after he promised he wouldn’t?

was dating this guy for three months, we became exclusive pretty quickly. We had a deep connection, and I always enjoyed my time with him. He was in the military, but he got injured and broke his two hips. I told him I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Why is my friend in such a hurry to go home?

My best friend and I enjoy our time together. We go out places, we poke fun at each others and roast the shit outta each other (If best friends don't poke fun or roast each other , then they aren’t really friends.) but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why Do People Choose Breakups Over Fighting for Their Relationship?

"Can we talk about how wild it is that so many people jump straight to breakup mode when things get tough in a relationship? Seriously, is that really the go-to solution now? 🥴 It feels like everyone has this ‘out’...

Lurix

Xper 4 Age: 26

Are there guys out there who genuinely find an average girl attractive and does not wish or fantasies about better looking women?

I have always felt a pressure to look a certain way, to have the whole instagram drop dead gorgeous type of beauty. I’m nothing special. I’m plain. White, skinny, no facial features that stick out except maybe my eyes. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How Do You Deal with a Partner Who Constantly Backs Out of Responsibilities and Refuses to Work?

Y’all ever been with someone who just REFUSES to get their life together? Like, no matter how many times you try to help, support, or push them, they stay stuck in the same spot 🥴. My partner procrastinates EVERYTHING....

Lurix

Xper 4 Age: 26

Other

Have you ever met a diagnosed psychopath (anti-social personality disorder) in real life? If so, how was it like?

I personally have. It was back in high school. It was this one guy who always had a dead expressionless look in his eyes and generally showed absolutely zero emotion unless he was actively tormenting someone, which he...

EzraIsShy76028

Xper 7 Age: 24

My relationship is on hiatus and o don’t know what to do at this point?

I (F45) and my boyfriend (M43) have been in a relationship for 3 and a half years. Right now, we have been on a break for 3 weeks. He doesn’t want to see me or talk to me and won’t tell me why. We have been communicating...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean if someone breaks up with you and promptly gets on dating apps?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Sunday at 9pm, he broke up with me, saying that he's struggling with trauma and other things and just wants to be alone while he deals with it. Within 12 hours he got a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does he mean he doesn’t expect me to wait?

My boyfriend and I have been together 10 months now. 4 of those long distance. Sometimes we have fights because of the time different and texts getting misinterpreted. Normally we get through them okay. But after the last...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Help me I’m ruining my relationship with him?

I’m 23. My boyfriend 28. When me and my boyfriend went on a break he started seeing this girl, he met her twice. Obviously it hurts me but what can I say. We are back together now and she is really frustrating me, trying...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Pissed off and Hurt over what my ex did, how do I get over it?

My ex and I dated 6 months and broke up 2 months back. I intiated it. The relationship honestly was too quick and turned toxic really fast. My ex was a narc, took full advantage of my innocence and empathetic naturate and...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22