Search Results: thinking about past

Why does a guy I’m newly talking to keep making references about a trip I’m thinking about planning?

This guy I’ve been seeing for the past 7 weeks knows I’m planning to go to visit my cousin in Arizona in the next month or two. He has asked when I plan to see her randomly 3 or more times now. I just told him I wasn’t...

barbie2525

Explorer Age: 37

He's not gay, he's not a player, but why does he spend time alone with so many women?

So, here's the deal. I have a guy friend here at college who hangs out with a lot of girls. He's on the football team, super sweet and genuine. He is very close to me and my best friend. We hang out a lot, sometimes alone...

caroline062005

Xper 2 Age: 21

Girl's Behavior

Girls, why do some many girls hate guys nowadays or have some sort trauma past or rebellious stage or long list of demands for a guy?

I have tried to find "the" girl to potentially be with for over a decade but girls nowadays seem broken in my opinion. If you answer this do not give me some generic response such as -- "maybe you're looking for the wrong...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I think the guy im dating is stalking me?

I met this guy at a cafe I regularly go to. I got talking to him and he seemed really nice. When I got home I realised I left my scarf behind. The next thing I know he's posted on are local spotted fb page saying he's got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he referencing some random guy as my other boyfriend?

I’ve been newly starting to talk and go on dates with this guy for the past 6 weeks. We see each other about 3 times a week. We defined this past week that neither of us are seeing other people. A friend of his randomly...

barbie2525

Explorer Age: 37

Should I Wait six years to get married?

My boyfriend of almost two years has a good job, a nice place and we have a great life together. We are planning to move in together next year. I grew up religious and the fact I am moving in with him before marriage is...

Emilyqew

Xper 5 Age: 28

Do we become more and more empathetic as we experience more in life?

For example, in the past when I saw people with broken legs, I felt brief sadness for their discomfort and was thinking “Wow! They must be so adventurous to have managed to break their legs!” And I instantly felt a bit if...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Why won't a guy just leave you alone and try to force himself into your life?

I just can't stop thinking about it. He hurt me a lot in the past with his actions and behaviour and everytime I just wanted to forget him and move on. But he always came back not leaving me alone and trying to force...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend says i'm wicked for not wanting kids?

I have a huge family but that family has a lot of single mom's married or unmarried. I love kids I really do, I grew up changing my baby cousins, neices and nephews diapers and I love them more than anything. i've been...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Limerance for past hookup?

So long story short, i had a drug induced psychotic episode three years ago from 🍄and there was this guy that I was in love with during this time. Prior to that we had talked for nearly four years and we never saw...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why does America encourage fast and dangerous driving?

Just been thinking lately how different it is over there when it comes to driving, I've recently been and yeah driving over there is like a free for all and now my Insta decides to give me so much feed of bad driving in...

Kaneki05

Master Age: 25

Holidays

For those of you in a relationship, whose family takes priority during the holidays? Is it the boyfriends/husbands or girlfriends/wife’s?

My past boyfriend’s always put my family first and their family would wait to celebrate with us. My brothers always put their wives families first. I have felt bad, thinking it isn’t fair but their families always said...

Beckybooboo

Yoda Age: 26

Marriage & Weddings

Resolution or recommendations please! What to do?

I want to get married but he doesn’t believe in marriage due to childhood trauma and current depressive disorder. I totally understand this and I don’t mind waiting till he heals up and takes his time for the later but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I love him so much and we share a child but he’s cheating on me?

I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 27. We share a son together who is just 1 month old. I love my son dearly and I love my boyfriend. I found out he has been cheating on me 2 weeks after our son has been born. Not only that but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is my crushes friend acting weird with me?

Basically I have a crush in this guy and I've noticed his friend has been being very weird with me for example my crush has been absent for a couple days and I've been noticing his friend ("ima call him friend w because...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it a bad idea to try and get to know a girl at the gym?

I work at 24 Hour Fitness and there's a regular who comes to workout everyday. I started a small conversation with her last week. It was the only conversation that I've had with her as of right now. I said, 'hi" to her...

Naruto2000

Xper 2 Age: 33

Girl I dated briefly said she wanted to take it slow but I felt that she lied me. What do you think?

I dated a co worker for about a month and a half and from the get go she said that she likes to take things slow which can be a red flag for some but i wanted to be mature about it and i accepted that considering they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Help! Do I stick it out or let it go?

I’ve been seeing someone for about 6 months. At first, I wasn’t super interested but he took me by surprise. I didn’t see it coming. A couple months in things shifted away from sex and he was doing more things that showed...

Anonymous

(36-45)