I have a huge family but that family has a lot of single mom's married or unmarried. I love kids I really do, I grew up changing my baby cousins, neices and nephews diapers and I love them more than anything. i've been celibate for the past 20 years cause I don't want a kid. My boyfriend says he wouldn't mind tho and we've been dating for yr. I'm saving up for uni the past 2 years so a kid would disrupt my next plans for the next 10 years on where I wanna be career wise and I think I would hate that because then I'd have to build for them and having to stop building the life I want for my mom. I wanna finish the house I'm building so she can live with me and if she wants one I'll build her one too. She lives in this small wooden house all 5 if us grew up in. We all have different dads abd I feel like since me she has always been in fight mode she's married now to my oldest siblings dad after he got divorced and got out of jail and not he has been blind for the past 9 years so she's been the one to provide and pay bills cause his kids are no help and he hides his money from her. I think kids should go to parents that want them and rn I don't want any, I think I'd hate the kid like how my mom didn't want me so my dad took me but my mom came and got me as soon as she realised how abusive he was to me. I don't think you should have a kid if you plan to love and be with that 1 person forever I grew up thinking it was normal for u to not have both parents live with you until my aunt's husband explained when I asked if he didn't have a house to himself when I spent the holidays and he always came home. I love babies and kids really I volelunteer at kids hospitals and I donate books and supplies ylto orphanages and kids in my community every year. I just don't think I'd like that kid if it was mine when I expressed this to him he said I was a wicked person for doing that but I don't feel sorry.
My boyfriend says i'm wicked for not wanting kids?
