Search Results: when loves comes

I hate her but wants her to be just mine? Is it obsession or lust?

I did like her and she does with me. But I hate the idea of commitment. She is madly in love with me and I said we will have just be flings She was reluctant which made me angry. Anyhow I feel I need her consent all the...

bulleye

Xper 4 Age: 29

He’s the savior?

He believes he did good thing and got me away from my abusive boyfriend who was locked up at the time. Trying to pursue me for over a year. Finally I let him in and exposed my trauma which he had asked. He’s not physical...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Women empowerment or double standards?

Women are so empowered today and are even performing much better than men in many fields and that's a good thing but when it comes to relationships why women want patriarchy? And in divorce courts all of a sudden they are...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

How to balance shopping and chores?

My wife loves shopping! Mostly just looking which is nice but she won't take a day and do the needed chores around the house. Weekend comes and I'm the one awake early cleaning taking care of things. She wakes up late and...

CuriousHubby

Xper 7 Age: 30

My wife loves shopping! Mostly just looking which is nice but she won't take a day and do the needed chores around the house. Weekend comes and I'm the one awake early cleaning taking

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Marriage & Weddings

How could a man love his wife more then his own kids?

Never made sense to me especially when a person says “well because my wife is the only reason I have my kids”. Especially if his wife loves her kids more then her husband, she too would not have kids if it was not for her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Black guys - complicated advice for white girls who want that thing but not what comes with it?

How do you feel when you know our main interest is in that one physical aspect everyone talks about, and it's not really about a relationship? I can't lie, a lot of the Black men who have it love the power it gives them...

texascollegegirl

Xper 6 Age: 20

How do you want to be loved?

Each person surely has their own expectations from their partners when it comes to wanting to feel loved. Some only feel loved when their partner is showering them with gifts or compliments, while others prefer actions...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I stop thinking about this guy?

I am married to a guy a love very much, we dated for 2 years and have been married for 3 years- there have been some ups and downs but honestly everything is usually just fine. while we were dating he did hurt me a lot,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you believe some things are better kept to yourself when it comes to relationships?

Someone once told me that certain things are better kept to yourself in a relationship if you love the other person. This could include your past, certain sexual fantasies, or a dangerous part of you that you're...

Alchemizt

Xper 5 Age: 25

Do you believe “love comes when you least expect it”?

People often say the less you look for love the easier it is to get. Do you believe that? Have you had more luck when you were looking or not looking?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is my girlfriend naive because she doesn’t mind the price of the gift I give her?

I know most of grown up women like expensive things like branded material things, but my girlfriend (26 years old) says she doesn’t mind the price of the gifts I give her, she says she even loves it if it’s just a cheap...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would he leave me after I found out he kissed another girl and why would he say he would go with her?

Daniel and I have been together for almost 2 years next month. At the beginning of the relationship everything was going well, until July or August 2023 came along and I found out he was flirting with two girls who he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fear of being with the wrong guy?

Hi y'all. I'm 22 and I've been dating this guy for almost 2 years and he's my first long term boyfriend. We're both 3rd year Uni students. I do love him, he treats me well and I feel comfortable around him. But since the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to know if my husband still loves me?

I have been married for almost 3 and half years, and for about a year my husband changed.. he started to not care about me at all, if i’m sick he would not do anything at all, stopped helping me with house cleaning and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

We could never be together and now I’d rather die?

He was my first love at the age of 15, I have always felt we were soulmates, we went our separate ways at 19 and found new relationships fast, we both married young and had children. The marriages lasted a while and we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it strange that my boyfriend has not called me on his vacation? We will not see each other for two weeks. Opinions?

I’m not sure if this is worth talking to him about but he has been on vacation for close to a week and as soon as he comes back I go on my vacation. So We won’t be able to see each other for two weeks. We have only been...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ex-BF/Fling is my colleague and tried to attack me at office when I was getting handsy with another guy. Should I be worried?

I used to like him in Uni and he used to like me as well. But more like I liked him when my boyfriend broke up with me and he was on bench. Thus he rejected me. We tried beings flings but he got very possessive of me in...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Did she want a 3some love triangle?

Long story short There is a girl in my workplace, I proposed her, she didn't even react.. So I just move away from her as I think she is not interested in me and then she would give attention to me. So this went...

Anonymous

(18-24)