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We haven’t really talked much, I told him I’m not on the app often. He then gives me his #, I ask if he’s on social media bc I’d prefer to share my # at a later time. He says he’s only on Facebook, gives his name & when I look him up, he only has pics of he and a little boy (guessing his kid). But he doesn’t have on his dating app profile he has kids BUT he has a pic of he & the kid on his profile. Plus I don’t feel safe adding on FB either, that has my name & my family is on there etc

I started to see someone, (we've seen each other for 3 months). His life was getting very stressful, work demands, and a challenging negotiation over finances with his ex. He felt guilty for not giving me what I "deserve" and said he has no emotional reserves to deal with a relationship. He said he needed to get through February. He said if we are meant to be together we will be, said he won't be dating. Off and on he's said he doesn't want me to go away but also says he doesn't expect me to wait. He has a lot of great qualities that I would like in a long term relationship. I feel confused about whether he will get a hold of me in the near future and wonder if I should move on. Thoughts? I do believe he has a stressful life, it's not BS to get out of seeing me. But I also feel swept off my feet and dropped on my head. While I want to have compassion, I tend to put my needs last. At the same time, he's a super guy.. or am I kidding myself? PS I'm over 50 years old.