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At 25-30 they have been heart broken and been around so they can’t fall in love as well as say younger girls.

I just came out of a relationship with a girl 28 and slightly older than me! First hand experience 😅 I was her absolute dream guy, tick all and every box then slightly different opinions and views and she was gone. I think women are too headstrong, independent and know themselves too much at 25-30. It’s not the age to catch ‘em.

I was always told this growing up. I used to believe women understand men better then vice versa. But not anymore.

I believe women understood men better in earlier times out of necessity. They used to depend more on men to provide and protect them. It was important for them to understand men they wanted to get in a relationship with vs. those to avoid.

But in modern times women seem far less concerned about understanding men. Not that I expect them to naturally understand that. But one thing they seem to struggle with is understanding the difference between likeability / attraction vs. respect. Men actually crave respect more then they crave sex, intimacy, etc.

It’s possible to still respect someone even think you don’t like them. It’s about understanding their situation and what they have to deal with. And truly men generally understand this concept far better then women do.

One example is when I broke up with my ex girlfriend. At that point I was no longer attracted her at all. Can’t say I liked her much either. But I still respected her. I knew about her struggles and dreams. That’s why I gave her the respect of sitting down and breaking up face to face. Endured 2 hours of hell (screaming, crying, etc.).

But I don’t regret it. I didn’t fixate on her flaws and chastise her over grudges and things I didn’t like about her to self justify my decision (I’ve had women do that to me when I was dumped). I had enough respect for her that would just add insult to injury.

Dating for a gen Z male is really hard for most. Girls live on social media and seek perfection. Good looks, tall, in shape, rich, smart, enormousD

I might have all those things and more - but it still is a kill joy because it’s not a game any man can truly win at. The game is unplayable because you can’t be the number #1 guy in every metric. How are men judged on 50 things…. What are women judged on?

👉 You might think well normal guys get girls. That doesn’t mean the girls really want them in an ideal world. Normal men are settled for. You would have to live knowing that you aren’t what a girl really wants. That if she could have more she would.

I have a girlfriend and I tick all the boxes and she’s really nice and even then she loves all this shallow stuff about me. It’s nice and makes me feel sad like All these things that shouldn’t really matter, that don’t even make a good guy. But this is how shallow and immature girls are…

Sometimes I do think it is better to be alone. But then how do you progress in life without having kids.