Search Results: self esteem

Would you tell your friend if her boyfriend was talking trash about her behind her back?

I’m dealing with a really uncomfortable situation at work involving a friend of mine, Alex. I helped her get this job when she was struggling. She’s very shy, has low self-esteem, and lost her long-term boyfriend years...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

Health & Fitness

Any guesses of my body fat %? Is these results good for 3 months of work and diet?

Started the gym back in November and go 6x a week workout each muscle twice a week. My weight started at 245lbs. I felt miserable and low self esteem. I’m currently at 205lbs after 3 months of consistent diet and clean...

jordanb8989

Xper 5 Age: 34

Health & Fitness

Do you ever resent your body?

Sometimes I actually really do. I'm not unattractive or fat or have 12 toes or anything. It's because of my bladder. My entire life has been affected by bodily fucking functions. It seems the universe thought in its great...

RandomGirl42

Guru Age: 26

Social media / couples boundaries?

We don't follow each other on all social media platforms (only on 2 - Instagram & Facebook, not tiktok) to respect some level of privacy online, but I don't like some of the profiles he is associated with especially when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the point of dating anymore?

I have a good collection of experiences with people. From being overweight in my childhood, to having self esteem issues over my cleft lip, to being too stoic, and discovering that I am neurodivergent in a high...

simply_anomalous

Xper 1 Age: 34

Need some ex relationship advice?

So, my ex girlfriend/girl i was engaged to for 3 years have been split up For 7-8 months now. We both made a lot of mistakes and treated eachother poorly. We was on and off a lot. Well, she contacted me 3 months ago...

jordanb8989

Xper 5 Age: 34

How Do I Look?

Was in a 3 year relationship, we been split 7 months?

jordanb8989

Xper 5 Age: 34

Should I be concerned?

Need your advice on something please. My partner whos bern through channeling bad stuff has been effected by it mentally resulting in a change of self esteem, fear to loose me, jealousy over nothing. We're doing what we...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Technology & Internet

Why More and More People Are Quitting Social Media: My Perspective

It’s no longer a secret and not something Meta and probably TikTok can hide either. More and more people - namely younger ones - are quitting social media in record numbers. There are even news reports on it as well. It...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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How to regain self confidence if I feel ugly?

I got married to my 8 year old boyfriend and now after the marriage he has become very busy. He does kiss me as often. Saying something like his mouth tastes weird. He has stopped lifting me too ( i was 38 kg he used to...

kaleshigirl

Xper 2 Age: 31

Guys, Have you ever told a gal that SHE is out of your league?

Funny little convo today with someone who is insanely successful, seemingly social, but has some kind of self-esteem issue. He claimed that *I* was out of his league. I didn't understand what he meant. I actually...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Family & Friends

Does anyone else just do better in this life when you do life solo?

I feel like my self esteem takes a toll when obligated to meet up with family as they guilt trip me a lot or just having to force yourself to talk to people in general? Sometimes you just come across hard going people to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Has your self esteem changed?

For me no. I have a very low self esteem. I dont like the way I look not many people find me beautiful like dreamy beautiful. I mostly have been called ugly all my life.

mrshooiser

Xper 6 Age: 32

I met a guy in social setting twice , he gave me lot of attention without any follow up , later when I messaged him , he left on read. I'm stuck. Why?

I come from a very conservative family , also never had guy friends in life. I live with my mom and sister separately, my mom left my father because he was a womaniser, he later abandoned us and lived his life selfishly,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What makes someone whose insecure and have very low self esteem feel better by rejecting them?

I’m not talking about if someone’s simply not your type… But you don’t really enjoy doing it. But it makes no sense… someone genuinely likes you and you hurt them… which makes them NOT like you anymore. It never made...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30

How to not let feeling rejected by my coworker impact my self esteem?

I know I shouldn’t have a work crush and I don’t I was just attracted to him. When I first met him we introduced ourselves because we were right next door to each other and we realized that we had both graduated from the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to tackle this phase in relationship where your boyfriend keeps fucking up and everytime you confront him he feels more disappointed?

my boyfriend has been facing self esteem issues lately caused by his family, friends and sometimes me. Most of are arguments are bcs of huge mistakes made by him. Lately I think he hasn't been able to deal w guilt...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does being greedy in love cause love to turn into an obsession and toxicity?

When you fall in love, you want to spend more time with that person, want to hold the person more, want more attention from that person, want to be included in that person's life, and want the person to need, want, love...

Anonymous

(25-29)