Search Results: slept with a guy with a girlfriend

Actually girlfriend or really just a fling?

Okay me and my guy chatted/talked for three or four months which was all on me before going on a date we have officially been boyfriend and girlfriend for about two or three months now but I feel more like a fling then a...

ConfusedGirl0628

Xper 1 Age: 30

Did she lie to me about sleeping with her friend? Girls please help?

backstory, before me and my girlfriend started dating during the talking phase she said "Pauly is my best friend he's a guy, we've never done anything but it went around that we did cause my ex was cheating on me so I set...

Skater92j

Xper 1 Age: 37

Guys, Why would he keep me on loop for 3 after we broke up and also stay with a new girlfriend?

After breaking up from a longggg relationship (he said its not you its me, you didn't understood me, than I took your for granted, I didn't kew what to do with my life) he jumped on another. The thing is he passed a bad...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How would you react if you found out your girlfriend used to be a hoe?

I’ve been with my girlfriend Becky for a long time. I think I love her and I really enjoy spending time with her. However, she’s recently shared her ugly past with me. When she was in her younger years she had a rep of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’ve been with my girlfriend Becky for a long time. I think I love her and I really enjoy spending time with her. However, she’s recently shared her ugly past with me. When she was in

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Does living alone at 28 mean I’m abandoning my mom as I’m not married help?

I plan move out in 2 months. My dream of getting married at 28 never came true. No guy wants be my boyfriend and have serious relationship with me guys deny meet families deny call me his girlfriend, I never lived with a...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Am I the jerk in this situation?

(Context: I knew this woman who was older than me I used to hang out with back in the day over a decade ago. I was into her back then but she never gave me the time of day and threw herself at jerks and pretty boys -- I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I live with a guy and have a baby & meet family get comittment? im hallow & ready for comitment?

I’m going to be 28 and I been feeling empty. I just work and eat and go to sleep. I come home to my mom instead of a man which is ridiculous. I did date one guy July & we would sleep together in his bed like cuddle like a...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Girls help! Should I dump him or keep seeing him? would you date a guy that refuse call you his girlfriend?

It’s one month of dating we met weekly 2-3x a wk, text daily, sleep weekends together hugging like a married couple, no sex just bjs 3x very short. I even took care of his dog once while he went to work. I made him food...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

My girlfriend blocked me cause of rumors that she may have started. Should I reach out?

There is a rumor going around that my girlfriend slept with another guy that I know. I don't believe it cause there's evidence that she didn't. But to be sure, I told her, and she got mad cause I was asking. I even told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why my ex's friend is trying to sleep with me?

Pretty self explanatory question. My ex broke up with me but him& his closest friend still keep tabs on me which I don't care if they do, but when I've tried to talk to my ex's friend about missing my ex and how he has a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you deal with a gamer boyfriend who’s always “there but not really there”?

My boyfriend is a full-on PC gamer. I knew he was a gamer when we started dating, and I even thought it was cool I play occasionally myself, and I always got along with gamers. But now that we live together, I’m realizing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What’s difference of dating and friends with benefits?

People dating or are boyfriend girlfriend , have sex , so what’s difference of a friends with benefits? Don’t friends with benefits have only sex and no dates? And dating involves dates hanging out and sex? a guy asked me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is meeting 2x a month a boyfriend girlfriend a relationship?

I never had a boyfriend 😔 I’m always crying anxious confused. I never had a real boyfriend that sees me weekly , attends functions with me, calls me his girlfriend , I never lived with a boyfriend. i met a new guy last...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

How should guys react if one of their friends is making lewd/sexual remarks on their female friends/colleagues?

I have this one old friend of mine who I recently introduced to a female friend from my uni. Now this guy is a bit lonely and sexually frustrated and he was quite struck by her the moment he met her. After that he kept...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why guys don’t want a girlfriend or refuse make first move?

I thought a guy had to talk first to a girl but latley all boys I see want me talk first. They simply show interest by appearing near you on purpsoe but u need talk then they reciprocate. Is this a new trend or something?...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Is he being inconsiderate?

bigdreamer1

Xper 5 Age: 34

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed to go to a client dinner with him so I cancelled my original plans. We are hosting the duo we just went & visited this last weekend since they are coming into town for a wedding. Last night on our way to dinner he lets me know he’s going to a guys night tonight & so I reach out to one of my girlfriends to hang out. Today he asks if there’s any way I can leave work early & I do. I let him know I can & that i’m running 2 quick errands first. I get home & he’s playing xbox and asks me to blow him. I the comment & start doing chores. After I have been home for 45 minutes he comes to me and starts undoing his pants &gesturing to give him a bj, I just stare. He mouths how I never want to “take care of him” and walks off. I tell him the reason I am not is because he is going to be gone all night with the boys &when I come home he’s playing games with the boys for 45 min so I don’t feel obligated to serve him when he’s not considering the time with me. He states he isn’t going to fight with me and I told him I’m not fighting just telling you why I’m not giving you a bj. He goes to lay in bed &I go lay beside him while he scrolls social for about 20 min before turning away from me &acting like he is going to sleep. I get up to feed the dogs and go to sit by the pool and within 5 min he is leaving the house, not saying a word to me, then texts noticeably annoyed that he will be gone until boys night starts. This is somewhat a common occurrence when he doesn’t get his way, he’ll ignore me even if I try to talk to him he won’t respond. I just don’t see why he doesn’t get we have &are about to spend a lot of time with his people &I’d like to think he’d take advantage of our alone time, not use it to continue to spend with others and only give me attention if intimacy is involved. General thoughts?

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Me and my girlfriend broke up last year, we got back together recently but I found out she slept with someone. how should I cope/move past it?

I want to start by saying that I believe she had the right to do whatever she wanted when we were broken up, but SHE had set boundaries to which I agreed with. One of those boundaries were that she did not want to be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does this bother him so much?

Ok this is a question for the guys, I have a man I’ve been dealing with (not in a relationship) but that’s the kind of role he plays in my life. He does a lot of what a boyfriend would do for a girlfriend but we aren’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)