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Total Equality

• men and women get paid the same but must work the same hours including overtime
• men and women can both vote but men and women must be drafted into the military
• men and women split 50/50 pay on everything including dates and bills
• 50/50 men and women in leadership positions. 50/50 men and women in dangerous dirty jobs
• prisons must be occupied with 50% men and 50% women
• men and women can fight for whatever lifeboats are left on a sinking ship
• women can not run for safety if her man is fending off an assailant coming after her
• women can hit men as hard as possible but men can also hit women back just as hard
• no tone policing from anyone. men can be as harsh as they want to women
• no one is left single, all men and all women will partner up against their wishes

Total Chivalry

• men must work always. women won't work and won't get paid
• only men can vote but get drafted into the military. no vote and no draft for women
• men must pay for everything from dates to bills
• 100% men in leadership positions and 100% men in dangerous dirty jobs
• prisons only for prisoners regardless of demographics
• men must give up their spot in the lifeboats for women
• men must always help a woman who can run away from danger even at the cost of his life
• men must never hit women ever even if women are hitting men as hard as possible
• men must always watch their tone when talking to and about women
• ultra-capitalism is in the dating market

I’ve been with my girlfriend Becky for a long time. I think I love her and I really enjoy spending time with her. However, she’s recently shared her ugly past with me. When she was in her younger years she had a rep of sleeping around.

She apparently was the school slut who got tagged teamed by the jocks. Becky even told me about how when she was 15 and had fuck buddies in their 30’s. And how when she was in university she dated 3 guys at once and caught chlamydia and gonorrhoea twice. Even used Only Fans to pay for school.

Even worse, she supposedly slept with other men when she was married. Her excuse was that her and her husband broke up and stayed married so he wouldn’t get deported.

After knowing all this I’m starting to look at her differently. Sometimes I see Becky the same way I see the woman in the picture. But it’s hard to leave Becky because she is trying really hard to make this relationship work. I’m a low value man with no proper education and job, and she makes feel like a high value man with the way she treats me. She really wants us to get married and keeps telling her friends Im gonna but her a ring. But it’s a tough decision for me.

She wants to meet my parents and I know they’re not gonna like her at all. My parents are and have always people skills. They can pick up on things.

The other day beck told me she’s having suicidal thoughts and being with helps her not think suicidal. She’s undergoing therapy atm.

A discussion recently occurred on r/Asianmasculinity, where an Asian male was talking about the complete double standards that Asian women have for Asian men and white men.

A snippet from OP discussion called "Different Dating Requirements for Asian vs. White Men"

"I’ve noticed that Asian women (ex. my female friends) hold Asian men to much higher standards—expecting them to have a car, a house, or a high income—while not requiring the same from white men. In addition, these women expect Asian men to pay for dates and experiences, but are fine to split with white men."

Many users were in the comment in agreement and even cited a Yale study that supported it

Yale sociologist Grace Kao: “In fact, we find that despite the higher education and income of Asian American men, there is evidence that they are systematically excluded from having romantic relationships during adolescence and young adulthood”

Some even explained why so many non-white women see white men as gods and chase after them in the west.

"Social status: white men in white circles gain immediate acceptance due to familiarity bias.

Pretty privilege: White men in Asian circles gain immediate acceptance due to pretty privilege (it is internalized that euro features are more handsome)

So in the eyes of a white worshipper, the white man already brings those values to the table by virtue of being white."

". Being with a white partner gives prestige that being with an Asian cannot. So Asian guys are required to compensate with material success.

Just stay away from these types of women and find someone who’s actually ride or die. I’m not saying don’t strive for success of course. But give it to someone who isn’t fucked in the head by internalized racism."