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The backstory is a guy I met online over a year ago started acting different and friend zoned me some months after I found out his real identity.

I’m feeling hurt and I want him to know that but also open to talking through the issue if he wants to.

I came up with two different messages I’m thinking of sending. One is really long and the other is more to the point without excessive details.

We still talk regularly.

Which do you prefer?

A. Hey so there’s something that I’ve been wanting to share with you for quite awhile now.

I’m feeling confused and hurt knowing that you continued to engage in sexual conversations with me for so long when you were actually feeling wary of me. It really makes me wonder if you are being genuine with me at all.

As I said almost a year ago, I fully understand if you don’t want to talk now that I know who you are. But feeling like I need to pretend that I don’t know your name and having to wonder whether you’re talking to me just to avoid conflict makes me feel like the connection might not be natural anymore.

I know I can’t change your feelings, but I’m working on cultivating more self-love and that doesn’t negate mine. As much as I enjoy talking to you, unless we can talk this through and change our dynamic, I feel that I’m disrespecting myself by continuing to chat with you.

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts on this!

B. Hey so I wasn’t expecting you to reach out after I left (website where we met) and after some thought, I think I need to let this friendship go.

I’m working on cultivating more self-love, and as much as I enjoy talking to you, unless our dynamic changes, continuing to do so is hurting my self-esteem.

Open to talking about it but also don’t want to bore you with a long message.

Take care 😊

Her jealous haters tried damaging her eyes. It looked exactly like “let me f#%k up those eyes you’re so proud of “ instead of “I’m just angry” because they were always the target 🎯 of their attacks

Also, can you trust being a blue-eyed blonde in a world where they sexualise little girls and underage schoolgirls?

Imagine the jealousy and danger if they were sparkly/milky blue. Having a different iris colour acted as an armour against the pigs.

I met this guy on a trip with some friends. He was friends of friends. We have a few things in common like music tastes, travel, meals ideas, spiritual beliefs. However there are a few things we don't have in common.

He's really into hardcore hiking. I mean mount Fuji, desert hiking , bouldering. He's not into cats from what I gathered. Then there is the age gap between us and financially we are two different sides of the fence.

See, I don't hike at all. Just little walks in town and on the paths like west lands and such. I'm not sure if it's gonna work out. What do you guys think? I'm wondering if I should be open or just shut it down. It will be hard since I really like him. Being interested in this guy feels like getting close to a celebrity.