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Before we get to the “yes” or the “no,” we need to take care of ourself.
Some people look for ultimatums (usually two) for their “stance” on love. Or relationships… as if it has to be DEFINITE. And Unmoving. Like a law. But us, as living, human beings, are constantly growing in more ways than...
I feel like I want to hurt the guy that played me and his wife?
He took advantage of me and my vulnerability and I trusted him bc he made me feel safe knowing that I was struggling with mental health and he made it seem like he wanted to love me.. he ended up ghosting me bc sex wasn’t...
Still wanting something who doesn’t want me and who lied to me?
It’s been a minute since we last talked and I’m still not over him… he made me feel safe then he switched up… he made it seem like he wanted something more when I wasn’t necessarily ready. He ended up wanting sex and I...
How do I get my friend out of the 1950’s dating mindset?
She’s 41 and single, and it’s got nothing to do with her looks at all. It’s because she has a very outdated approach to dating that barely even worked 20 years ago. She turns guys heads everywhere she goes and makes eye...
Why is it so easy for non-white women to overlook RED FLAGS of white men?
I remember on this very site, there was a female user from Trinidad, who said she looked down on local men and went into the arms of white men (many of whom were foreigners). The end result was that she got used for sex...
Relationship after friendship?
So, I (24F) and my boyfriend (26M) have been best friends for over three years before we realized our feelings for each other a week ago. Now, we’re both trying to ease into the transition, but it worries me. From his...
Why do women cause most divorces?
It's no secret that divorce rates have been very high in recent decades. The common perception is that men cause women to divorce them, but the facts show otherwise. When we compare divorce rates between heterosexual, gay...
Was I being rude and disrespectful to my girlfriend?
I was picking my girlfriend up at here apartment building for dinner and I pulled up to the front of her building and parked by to front door to wait for her. It usually takes her about 5 minutes to come down stairs as...
How would it make you feel if a guy kept asking personal questions about your mother?
I went on one date with this guy last weekend. Yes he was nice at first but he started asking me a lot of personal questions about my relationship with my ex ( which I kinda understand I guess) and about my mother. Mom...
What’s a red flag in a past relationship that your gut picked up—and you’re now grateful you trusted that instinct and walked away?
In my 20s i met someone online who had been deported from the US for overstaying a visa. We started a long distance situationship with the end goal, if we liked each other enough, i would sponsor him for a fiancé visa. We...
How to deal with a toxic person when you can't cut them off completely?
I'm 25f and I had a "friend" that is toxic and I want to completely cut out of my life. we started off as friends, gotten really close over the past few months, ended up having casual sex a few times, we'd hung out 2-4...
Why did he stop pursuing me suddenly?
I met this guy through work and there were vibes right away, he asked for my number that same day and texted me every few days for the next couple weeks. He also asked me about my relationship status the first day, and I...
Why doesn’t my ex want to be friends?
My ex and I moved from her home on the West Coast to the East Coast to start my residency. During this time, I fell in love with one of my colleagues who is also in the program. I ended things with my ex and began an...
Advice on long distance?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. We’re both 28—he’s American, and I’m from Europe. Throughout our relationship, I was always the one pushing for us to make plans, set goals, and create a...
When is a relationship beyond repairing. Can you keep going anyway into old age?
I'm 5 years from retirement I'm not in a happy marriage I feel slightly trapped because to end things would be awfully difficult To continue is tolerable I could go to counseling. I know they would say to...
Is it bad to withdraw a job application?
My company recently opened an internal job vacancy for a senior position. Although I do believe in career progression that position is not something I see myself doing, however, a few weeks ago some of my colleagues...
How do you move on after planning your future with someone who changed?
I'm really heartbroken to have to write about something like this but my boyfriend is withdrawn from our relationship 2 months after I gave birth to our first child. He had been going out a lot or hanging with friends or...
Do relationship breaks actually help or are they just the beginning of the end?
Some couples say they need “a break” to figure things out, but does that ever really work? Can taking time apart bring clarity and help people reconnect, or is it just a soft way of preparing for a breakup? If you’ve...
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