I feel like I want to hurt the guy that played me and his wife?

[Anonymous]

He took advantage of me and my vulnerability and I trusted him bc he made me feel safe knowing that I was struggling with mental health and he made it seem like he wanted to love me.. he ended up ghosting me bc sex wasn’t immediately involved and I fell into a deep depression and then anger where I harrassed him non stop , outed him and more and he just ignored me and police were involved

I found out he was married but getting a divorce and I tried talking to her and got blown off and I was hurt by that because I just wanted to know if he was in a relationship this whole time… she lied and said we’re just friends and I wouldn’t fck my guy friends but that wasn’t the truth and I became angry and tagged all her family and his family in a post about the divorce and how shitty they are

i went off on her online and the more they ignored me the angrier I feel because I feel like I’m not good enough and I didn’t deserve all this

[Anonymous]

You need help. Sure I get what he did was wrong on some levels but you know you have issues too. So you should have sought help for that first before trying g to get into something. Bottom line is chances are you’re going to go for whatever man shows a little interest. Fix yourself then find someone. He didn’t cause you to fall into a deep depression, you were already teetering on the edge of that. This didn’t all happen just because of him. Again you had or have issues that need to be resolved first.

[Asker]

But he knew he didn’t want to be with me and I didn’t know he was married

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so he played you. But that doesn’t change the fact that you have major issues. I mean you harassed him non stopped, tagged his wife as well as his family in all of this. What kind of person does this. You need therapy big time.

[Asker]

I wanted to be with him. I thought he wanted to love me. Why don’t you get that. Why wasn’t I enough why did I have to be trashed

He played someone who was already battling loneliness. You don’t understand how bad that hurts someone

[Asker]

He hurt me but I’m the one who has to suffer alone while he’s okay?

[Opinion Owner]

Who’s to say he’s ok. Maybe he has issues too.
Honestly more than likely you give off a vibe that men like him will pick up on subconsciously, so chances are even if it wasn’t him you’re still going to find a man like that. So again it comes down to working on yourself before getting into a relationship. I know myself if I was like that I couldn’t put someone in that situation to deal w my instability.
I get that you wanted to be w him. We’ve most likely all felt that way. But what we want isn’t always what we get. There were a number of girls who I wanted to be w when I was younger who cheated on me. I had to move on as much as it hurt.
As for why you weren’t enough, could be a lot of reasons.

[Asker]

He deserves the revenge

[Opinion Owner]

Deserves what revenge?

[Asker]

He deserves me outing him for liking trans, how he played on my vulnerabilities.. didn’t tell me he was married…. He deserved to get emby. It hurt me

[Opinion Owner]

lol ok. Like I said you need help. You’re the issue, not so much him.

[Asker]

So why doesn’t he just go ahead and sue me or whatever

[Opinion Owner]

Again you have issues. Suing you isn’t worth his time. He rather just forget about you then deal w you. Like you said you weren’t enough for him. This just proves that even more the way you’re handling this.

[Asker]

Then I’ll just keep doing it and telling his family he likes trannies or his church that he’s a manipulator. I could go on

[Asker]

He hates me that much?

[Opinion Owner]

Then do as you please but it’s not going to turn out good that’s for sure

[Asker]

So he doesn’t care about me or my mental?

[Nikki1989]

Most men lie, either sometimes or constantly. Sorry you went through this but I have learned many times over most men cannot be trusted.

[jahaims]

You're mental