Search Results: first time advice

My boyfriend moved back to his home town for his dream job but spends all his time at work/gym/with his old friends. How to stop feeling left out?

We’ve been dating 10 months and just finished our first month away from each other. Before he moved he promised we would talk all the time and there’s already been several days where he barely texts or doesn’t video call...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Girlfriend with anxiety and a past of depression broke up with me?

My ex broke up with me about a week ago. She suffers from anxiety and has had depression in the past. Her first and previous relationship wasn't abusive but was unhealthy. We were together for over 8 months. She struggled...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have a male coworker that has a girlfriend of almost 6 years. It’s clear that there is a connection. He’s confided in me at times. Does he like me?

I’ve been working at this school for a year now. I work with 3 other teachers, one of whom is a man. Early on to the start of the school year, it was very clear that the male teacher and I got along well. I also found out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Did I just screw up trying to make a female friend?

Not a dating/intimate relationship issue. Used this site years ago and was the first place I could think of to ask for advice. Will try and keep this short. I walk past an office several times a week. there's a woman,...

BazzaBongo

Xper 1 Age: 46

Other

Any helpful tips on moving to my first ever apartment?

This will be my first time living alone and I'm kind of excited. I was wondering if anyone have any helpful tips or advice on living alone. I wouldn't be needing to buy a refrigerator nor a stove/oven since I had signed a...

Youryeodongsaeng

Explorer Age: 22

I’m 16 and my boyfriend (17) of a year wants to have sex. I’m not ready and don’t think I’ll be until I’m at least 18. What should I do?

(i made this account in a hurry so please ignore the age i don’t really know the age requirement here i just wanted advice) my boyfriend is incredibly kind hearted and thoughtful, he’d never push me into anything I wasn’t...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend seems to be pocketing me, any advice?

I am 21 he is 20. I'm his first relationship, just for context we live seperatly with our familys. We met in Jan. 2023 and became exclusive April 10, 2023. In the first month or two of dating we had a conversation. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

If a good friend admits their feelings and you don't feel the same way, what do you do?

I have my own situation like this. It is complicated, but long story short I admitted to a friend I like her/have feelings for her. She didn't know I felt that way, and from what I gather, she said a good amount of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He won’t let me see his phone?

I discovered my boyfriend was looking through my phone while I was sleeping. I had a suspicion when I woke up and saw my phone (since all of the social apps i never use were open) but shrugged it off as maybe I opened it...

Stephanie0303

Xper 1 Age: 26

Guys, Sent a nude pic and he’s left me on read? Do guys really only want a pic?

I met this guy, let’s call him Bob, when I worked in his department at our work for a bit. He was super flirty so I gave him my number and we were chatting for a few weeks and both decided we weren’t looking for a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is the change my boyfriend showing permanent?

My boyfriend never showed emotional support whenever I needed him.. this relationship have been always felt as the surface level or shallow type.. After complaining about the same thing for a year for about 5/6 times he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Why does he think I’m ugly?

My coworker talks to the other girls first sometimes and not really me unless I talk to him. I’m not ugly by the way I get called pretty from customers and even my rough looking coworkers come to me for boy advice. But,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I don’t understand this guy, help decoding his behavior?

I’m a university student, and I recently started attending a new college after I moved. I met this guy there who I’ve now known for around 2 semesters, and he’s confused me to no end. Now I want to preface, I’ve already...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

Should I tell me coworker I like him?

So there's this guy at work who's super cute. He's the only straight guy in the job, so all the girls give him tons of attention. There's one girl in particular who loves flirting with him and always acts super jealous...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is she hiding her feelings from me or is she deliberately taking advantage of me?

After 2 years passed, we accidentally met again in a class. Then we talked again with great interest like friends, but it accidentally rekindled that love in me again. After class ended, I saw her standing down in the...

Beanie4444

Xper 2 Age: 25

How do I enjoy stuff without having my boyfriend around?

I've been dating this guy for a while now and I really like him. He recently went on vacation and until now, I randomly found myself thinking about him during my day and I thought it was cute, but now that i haven't seen...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

What's the one piece of advice you wish you received before you graduated High School?

It's that time of year in my neck of the woods. Which got me thinking about all the things I wish someone told me. Like: Don't get married before 28. Be your own kind of stupid/smart genius unwed for at least a decade....

pervertedjester

Editor Age: 46

Guys, Did I make a mistake by friendzoning him?

I recently met a guy a month ago and we went on a whirlwind romance. The chemistry was insane! We had everything in common and things got sexual really quickly! He’s also a bit arrogant, and thinks he’s better and more...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)