Should I tell me coworker I like him?

[Anonymous]

So there's this guy at work who's super cute. He's the only straight guy in the job, so all the girls give him tons of attention. There's one girl in particular who loves flirting with him and always acts super jealous when other girls talk to him. She's always trying to get his attention, but he's pretty chill. We're both stoners, so we vibe on that level, but things can be kind of awkward between us since I'm more introverted. He tends to talk to the other girls first, not me unless I start the conversation.

The other day, we were all talking about guys, and he was giving advice to the other girls. But when I mentioned my then boyfriend (now ex), he seemed to drift away or ignore me. My manager even suggested that I don't need a relationship since I'll be going to college soon and should focus on exploring my options, and my coworker said “yea you should explore more.”

Yesterday, I decided to wear a halter top to work to show off my fit body. However, he completely ignored me the entire day and didn't even say hi. I couldn't understand why since I've seen other girls wear way more revealing clothes than what I had on. I started to wonder if I looked ugly or if he just wasn't interested in me. The only time he talked to me was when a coworker mentioned a party I recently went to.

[Dildօphօbe]

First off, I do what he did when I know that you're in a relationship. And you talked about a boyfriend in front of him so... if he's your ex then why don't you just whip out your luscious lady lumps and let them do the talking for you? Give him a little taste of your delicious dumplings and watch him melt in your presence.
Or better yet, why don't you just walk up to him with your blouse bunnies bouncing and say, "Hey, I know we're both stoners, but I want to get high on something else with you." And then give him a wink and a smile that would make even Satan blush.
But if you really want to get his attention, you could always show up to work dressed like a sexy succubus, with your plump and perky pillows of passion on full display. You could even wear a shirt that says "I love my coworker's cock" and see how he reacts.
And if all else fails, you could always slip a note into his locker that says "I want to ride your love rocket all the way to the moon and back." And then attach a picture of your juicy jiggly juggs for good measure.
In the end, the choice is yours, my love. But just remember, there's nothing sexier than a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. So go get your man, and ride him like a wild stallion until the cows come home.

[Asker]

😂😂😂

[RavVid]

I think you should let this go. If I thought a girl at work was cute and attractive and fun I would still enjoy interacting with her even though she was taken. I wouldn't exceed appropriate boundaries though.

Not everyone that we fancy is going to fancy us back. It doesn't mean you are ugly. It just means you don't gel with him. Its not an insult to you either. It is just the way the world is. OK you are a young girl but that doesn't mean you can have any/every guy. They have a vote too and just might like something different to you. We are quite diverse in our tastes in girls..

It is also quite a competitive environment if he is the only straight guy and all the girls give him a lot of attention and flirt with him.

Let go.

[Asker]

You might be right. I realized that this might be my first experience with rejection in my 18 years of life. I've actually learned a lot about him since we started talking. Interestingly, one of my female coworkers who is also a stoner didn't even know that he also a stoner. When I was sharing some of the things he told me about himself, she was surprised and said that he had never mentioned any of that to her before. However, I've also noticed that he's very open with everyone, even the girls who are considered less attractive, and it wasn't like this in the beginning. I used to bring up my love interests around him and he would talk to me about them, but now he seems to ignore me. I don't know, maybe I'm barking up the wrong tree

[RavVid]

If he was the right tree I think you would know.

[Anonymous]

Damn where do you work that yes the only straight dude there? Lol no don’t, he’s not interested in you. This whole situation sounds like a recipe for disaster w all these other women.

[Vikkrram]

Of course you should tell him. You are not getting him now maybe who knows you will have him