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Search Results: bringing up the past
When a guy says it’s over, does he mean it?
For context, he said something happened this past weekend that brought him back to where he was at mentally that wasn’t good. He then said he wasn’t ready to open up and for both of us it just can’t happen now. This was...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean when a guy says this?
I’ve been talking to this guy since mid June and I noticed we have some things in common. Also because of recent and past trauma with guys I’m being more cautious a-swell as being careful of what I say. We started talking...
Anonymous
(18-24) Chick gives gives mixed signals?
I known this chick for 2 months. I was at a beach party that she was also invited too with 100 people. She sat near me, asked softly if I was having a good time, asked me to sit closer to talk, and then got only me a...
onemorething
Xper 3 Age: 36 Am I Being Unreasonable?
I’ve been with my boyfriend since I was 15–he was my first everything. Great relationship for years. However the past few months once we bought our own place he’s been a very different person towards me, and our now...
Anonymous
(18-24) How can we both heal?
My past relationships have really left a scar on my current behavior and I can be a bit toxic sometimes. I find it hard to trust people. My boyfriend currently has done nothing for me to think in any way like this but all...
Anonymous
(18-24) My ex and I still argue about the past and how our relationship went wrong even 1 year after breakup?
What does it mean if my ex and I still argue about the past from time to time and fight about the cause of the ending to our relationship that happened a year ago? Before you ask why we are still in contact, him and I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Not sure how to proceed with my ex suffering from trauma?
my ex girlfriend became triggered around me due to her past abusive relationship and other past SA. We talked about it and she didn't blame me for anything she was struggling with her trauma and realizing that she could...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girl and I agreed to just be friends. I asked out her roommate in front of her. Was that inappropriate?
This girl And I decided to just be friends, and said it was ok to see other people. She was the first to bring it up actually. We've still hung out for the past several months. I was playing a board game with her at her...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, do you ask guys about their past relationships and dating history?
As a guy who’s at an older age and has very little experience, this is a topic that guys like me dread being brought up. But how many of you ask about this to guys you’ve been dating? I’ve heard its pretty common for this...
Anonymous
(30-35) Moved/moving on from cheating?
So my SO cheated on me 5 years ago. We are married now with a baby otw. Yes, I have forgiven him, but that doesn’t mean I’ve forgotten what happened. I always see people saying that if you choose to move on then you can’t...
Anonymous
(30-35) Has the US Government become The Man?
Paranoia strikes deep Into your life it will creep It starts when you're always afraid Step out of line, The Man come and take you away ---------Social Philosopher, Steven Stills, "For What It's Worth" The Man...
Dargil
Master Age: 36 Is it okay If I spend my holiday with my ex fiance’s mother?
I no longer have feelings for my ex fiance and he’s now a story of past. His mom has been in touch with me every week since I came here in China, when I was totally alone his mom and dad always were ready to support me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it normal for guys to bring up smoking in the past when they get comfortable with a girl but deny having tried it when you’re getting to know?
Very early on, my SO told me he never smoked. So it registered in my head that he never smoked and that the only poison he takes is an occasional drink. Earlier, he was sharing some story that there was a time in his life...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is my life like this?
A lot has happened to me today and recently. The reason I am writing this now is what I am about to tell you. It started off my ex dm me making rude comments on my posts and it turned into something bigger where he...
pacifyherrr
Xper 4 Age: 18 Should I wait for him to call me after getting kicked out of his car?
Yesterday my boyfriend kicked me out of his car after an argument. I haven’t heard from him since. It all started when he asked me what I was going to cook for dinner. I told him I was thinking of ordering pizza. I...
capri_queeen
Xper 3 Age: 50 Any tips on how to get over the hurt you feel during a bad argument?
My boyfriend and I got in a bad argument two days ago. He said a lot of hurtful things. I question if he meant most of what he said or if he said them out of anger. He wants to work on things and is trying to make it up...
Anonymous
(30-35) In your personal opinion, will he come back or is it really over?
hey guys, I don't know what to call him at this point, my boyfriend or ex, I don't know, have been together for 10 years. a lot of arguments were based on social media. i’ll admit i have a lot of issues, past traumas that...
Anonymous
(30-35) Topic Knowing god
Many "excuses" exist and were taught that serve the purpose of not searching for knowing god or ending the search "too early" as one college prophesor wrote. we can analyze the ancient jew faith that they teach and...
strateguy632
Master Age: 50 Normal jealousy?
So i work with my best friend.. Straight male.. Is super secretive about his dating life.. No details etc. Nothing progresses past a few dates so he feels nothing to tell.. But then insists on knowing my dating life...
Anonymous
(36-45) Met his other sister today…?
So my boyfriend invited me over to a family function and I met his sister for the first time. His sister and I had a conversation and she mentioned to me how her brother (my boyfriend) always told her since 10 years ago...
Anonymous
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