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Search Results: he says things that hurt
What is your opinion?
So there is a guy in my neighborhood that we rent the same apartment units. First, I noticed that whenever his friends see me they would always tell me hi like even if i would be walking with my friends they would always...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do you tell your significant other what they’re doing wrong & bothers you, without them getting upset or annoyed with you in the process?
Has anyone cracked the code on this yet? I know that this is a big problem for many because tons of people can't take being told these things. It's embarrassing to them; it hurts their pride. Oh, they might be OK with...
ThaMaskedMarvel
Xper 5 Age: 110 The Day I Was (Almost) Struck By Lightning
A few years back, I worked at a Children's Museum as a manager. We had this huge outdoor water area with a lot of metal parts and high trees, things that lightning tends to get along with very well. Our protocol was that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you allow your boyfriend to spank you?
I just started to date this guy. Let me tell you he is 4 years younger than me. He is way mature for his age and kind hearted, respectful and gentleman. I know he is old fashioned and he likes to spoil the girl he's in...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex totally mishandled our breakup. How should I be with her moving forward?
So long story, my ex and I had a mutual breakup. We were 16 years together, high school sweethearts. We have a 12-year-old child together. Less than 2 weeks after we broke up she tells me she's already dating someone from...
JT017
Xper 2 Age: 37 Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend
Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...
Why did he tell me that?
I have been with this guy (he's younger than me) and well, we made like an Agreement to love each other and everything but not actually being a couple? But being loyal and all that... I know it sounds stupid but yeah......
biabyblue9
Xper 5 Age: 25 The Kaizen Way, AKA the method of making changes in baby steps. How can it change your life for the better?
The whole baby steps thing is all about how our minds are basically allergic to change. For our emotional brain, any change is like a red flag for potential failure, a threat to our cozy comfort zone, and a giant...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) No feelings but wants to cuddle, hold hands, etc?
Been seeing this girl for a couple of months, we spend time together weekly and sometimes more than once a week. She said she doesn't have feelings, but is open to them if they come. That's alright honestly, not a big...
Anonymous
(25-29) My ex wants to be friends but I feel like I can't. How do I go about this?
I (M35) had recently had a mutual breakup with my ex (F33) of 16 years back in early March. We have a daughter together. We didn't fight or and everything was pretty amicable. Of course I started going through the...
JT017
Xper 2 Age: 37 How do I still have fun even though I don’t like her?
I work with this one girl who I don’t hate but I’m really not a huge fan of her. She’s very pessimistic and I’m very very close to another girl there my age. This rude coworker is a year and a half older than me and my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Ex said he doesn’t care anymore after 7 years because we broke up because he was narcissistic and he was aggressive and abusive and I spoke/kiss guy?
I went to see my recent ex of 7 years on Sunday and he was saying he doesn’t care and doesn’t want me anymore but then he was asking about whether I had been on any dates and I said yes the day before and I said but I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I try and fix this friendship or not?
My friend and i stopped being friends out of no where they just stopped speaking to me and i tried to ask them about it 2 times in the beginning. but they tried saying that i was the one that stopped talking to them and i...
Anonymous
(18-24) What can I do to make myself happier?
Lately I feel so emotionally drained mainly because of my job. I love the people at my work but a lot of the people I like are leaving soon due to the old contracts being made redundant anyone around my age at work is...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 Best Guy friend is ignoring me now and I'm not sure what to do?
My best guyfriend is ignoring me. The last thing I did was he saw my stories and saw that I took a video of a very romantic setting with table on the beach. It wasn't mine by the way but on the audio background the couple...
Ofoceansbeaches
Xper 5 Age: 32 On a scale of 1 to 10, how big an idiot am i? Lol but seriously, I need outside perspective on if there is anything there?
So my best friend is a guy. We have been through a lot for each other and known each other for years and have a strong emotional connection. Things have gotten flirtatious but never crossed into sex. I have a strict no...
Anonymous
(36-45) Boyfriend kissed another girl years ago when we were together and says he doesn’t regret it because he was a kid. That hurt me. What should I do?
We’ve been together on and off for almost 9 years we were 16 when we started dating. We were talking about being drunk and losing inhibitions etc. when he said that when you’re drunk you don’t do things out of character...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you tell someone you're no longer interested without hurting them?
For 3/4 years i had a friends with benefits with a international footballer. When he was in the uk we would hook up in his hotel and go and do things together. So it's was actually a friendship. When he would be back...
lilyanony1
Yoda Age: 35 Boyfriend said he going to fuck me up?
Why would a guy say this? Last thing I want would be to hurt him. Why would he even think about hitting me? We say we love each other so much all the time and sex is so good. Why would he ever say something like this?
Anonymous
(30-35) He broke up with me do you think he'll ever message me again?
he said its not my fault nothing to do with me but later proceeded to say things that I did wrong that he never told me about. I didn't say anything mean about him. I loved him with all my heart gave my all. I posted a...
Anonymous
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