Search Results: in love with my guy friend

How to stop falling in love with people who are kind to me?

For context: my childhood was spent in a big, joint family full of judgmental elders. Growing up I was very quiet and shy and never really had much friends. I went to an all-girls school as well. I was never approached...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, what am I dealing with? What could this guy want?

I am getting mixed signals from my guy best friend for the last year. We have never had sex but sleep next to each other several days a week. When he is having a bad day or upset or emotional, he comes to me, even if in a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did she friendzone me?

I’m really confused. I met this girl off a dating app and we’ve been talking for a few weeks. I’ve taken her out a few times and everything has been going great. We’ve made out a handful of times. Well I took her out...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why am I crying and grieving so hard about my guy friend moving on?

I guess everybody tried to warn me about the rotten ex boys friends I’ve had and I was told it’s because I’m avoiding a real, true, loving relationship. My best friend said my guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) as what...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this double standards? What’s the black guys problem?

I'm a light-skinned Black girl who loves pale and tan guys. I like to express my preferences on dating apps or apps for finding friends so I attract my preference. I've noticed that whenever I mention my preference for...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What should I do?

So there was a guy who was my friend but due to his good behaviour and all I got in relationship with him but his marriage was already fixed but still he used to say I love you and you are imp and she won't come between...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Mainly venting, but what would you do if your ex said he still loves you even though he left you for a woman that has no interest in him?

He left me for a woman that doesn’t want him. Now she’s a player. She ropes men in, acts cute, gets the sex, and then dips. It happened to him but she didn’t have sex with him cause she “doesn’t fuck her friends”. She got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some men cheat on beautiful women?

I’ve seen this all the time. Including my ex. He has a perfect girlfriend, really pretty makes straight A’s has a career and good head on her shoulders. She met his family and friends in a heartbeat assuming he was really...

Anonymous

(18-24)

He loves me, he loves me not?

It’s so age old to play the “does this guy like me?” Game, but I’ve been out of the dating seen for almost 4 years and I’m recently single and quite frankly my radar for these things was bad enough before I got rusty....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would my guy friend find be beautiful when I was 266lbs when other guys ignored me back in high school?

I always was a big girl. I was never skinny or slim at all. Starting when I was 11, I was very insecure about my size. I developed early. I started getting boobs at 10 years old, 11 I got a boot and all. I was obese I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I got ditched for not believing in a god but wanting marriage one day, was that fair?

The guy couldn't understand how I can still want marriage but not make a vow to God. Meanwhile I'm so confused about the idea of involving some imaginary being as your witness to a wedding, talking to nothing. If I would...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you thing my older sister was right for setting me straight and tell me to give my guy friend a chance?

So earlier today I was sitting outside talking to my sister and how I’m never going to find the right guy. Also how my crush (let’s call him Devin) lied to me about having to work when he is going out with another girl....

Anonymous

(25-29)

If someone knew if their friend is in love with them, why would they go out with someone else?

If you have a friend or someone that is truly in love with you, values you, always there for you, treats you with respect and is in love no matter what size or back hound you are for years, GO OUT WITH THEM! Give them a...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Why Don't Guy Friends Get Closer?

So a few days ago, My boyfriend had his bestie over to watch some movies. To save some money we are keeping the thermostat down this winter and have just been using blankets and dressing with more layers to keep warm....

emeraldsaphire

Yoda Age: 31

Astrology girlies and obsessive girls help me?

a bit long but pls read - there is this one guy whom I dated for a year and also been broken up for 7 months we were both so in love but things were complicated. we haven’t seen each other since we broke up even though we...

IneedanswersASAPPP

Xper 2 Age: 20

Break Up & Divorce

A "relationship" just ended. Any good distraction techniques?

So I've posted very frequently about this situation i was in. Turns out he did like me and stuff but go figure valentines day bullshit, we couldn't hang out cause he had plans with his buddies. I was left on delivered for...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My friend hates me now because I hate this guy that she’s seeing?

I’m sorry, this isn’t a question just a rant, but I’m upset. She’s a good person and she’s gorgeous. She’s very kind, open and honest, and she’s very forgiving, and the last trait is the exact reason she’s single at 40....

Anonymous

(36-45)