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Search Results: red flags
If a man is possessive, is that a sign of love or a big red flag? Why or why not?
I’ve noticed that so many younger women in relationships seem to think that a guy being possessive is a sign of “love,” whereas older women know that it is a big reg flag. What are your thoughts?
Breanna_nonbinary
Yoda Age: 40 
What are beige flags?
Beige flags are things that are more indifferent. They aren’t good. But they are necessarily bad either but make you stop for a minute… Something weird maybe. A weird habit. Green flags are signs things are good. Red...
Guys, What do you think of girls with little to no social media?
Just curious if you think it's a green flag? Red flag? Does it bother you.
Lalalove11
Xper 6 Age: 26 The unspoken - sometimes unrecognized - cost of cheating.
If you have never been the victim of a cheating partner, you'll probably understand this MyTake on an intellectual level, but if you have every discovered that your partner has cheated, this will most likely resonate with...
u My boyfriend doesn’t want to buy a house with me. Should I move on?
I want to buy a house with my partner and work from home in the future, those are my long term goals. He currently owns a one bedroom apartment and wants me to put all of my money into starting up my own business by...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should women who lie about their age and their profiles give their real age before you meet them?
I did some basic research and discovered this woman took four years off her age. It’s not going to change if I want to go out with her. But her not telling me she did that is a red flag.
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it acceptable that boyfriend invites his best female to travel with us, but I haven't met this girl once so far?
Because there are word limits in the title, I actually did not fully describe it. The issue is that I am going to Italy for a conference in May, and I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to visit Italy together, but he said...
sandra2025
Xper 1 Age: 38 What are the biggest red flags in a man?
Ladies what are your biggest red flags in a man?
texasman2002
Xper 1 Age: 23 Historically, why is the stigma of still living at home, with your folks, or never having lived on your own before, worse in men than in women?
Historically, its an obvious fact that men get judged or frowned upon, criticized, bashed, far more than women do if they still live at home, with their folks, or have never lived on their own before. Also, its more...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, do you ask the how long have you been single question when dating?
As a guy who's 31 and has been single his whole life, I hate the fact that this question and others about past relationships and dating history are even asked. I don't even bother to try and date because of these...
Anonymous
(30-35) Husband knows personal information about his female co worker?
Apparently she shares her life with him and another male co worker. Is that a red flag?
missindiana93
Explorer Age: 32 I have always been ghosted, ignored and been treated invisible my entire life, but I don't know why?
I've been through multiple friendship breakups, and I apparently thought I was the victim in all of them, until I recently went through a recent friendship breakup with my best friend of three years. Maybe this pattern...
Anonymous
(18-24) My boyfriend keeps condoms but we don't use & he verbally abusive when I find one & ask him? is he definitely cheating? is any chance he not lying?
I've found condoms about 5 times now at my boyfriend's house but he doesn't use condoms with me! When I find one and ask him where it came from, he becomes extremely verbally and emotionally abusive to me and tells me to,...
Lyndseylou38
Xper 2 Age: 35 What's your turn off/ red flag?
This is for guys 40+. What's your biggest turn off/ red flags while dating younger women? And what do you consider wife material?
Anonymous
(30-35) Anonymous
(25-29) How do I date when I feel so hopeless about having no dating experience at 31?
Like the question title says, I'm 31 and have no experience with dating or relationships. I just feel so hopeless about my dating prospects at this point because of it. Almost everyone has had at least a couple of...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
Never been led on like this?
I was talking to this guy who seemed amazing for a while. I knew about his situation. He was going through a separation. He told me all the things I wanted to hear and used me as a therapist. (red flag ik) We went on a...
Anonymous
(25-29) 