Husband knows personal information about his female co worker?

[missindiana93]

Apparently she shares her life with him and another male co worker. Is that a red flag?

[Little_Bumblebee]

What kind of personal information are we talking about?

I work in a production and my little department is located in this small room of windows, the heart of the production I guess.

Apart from the production leader, and one who works on the floor, we're just 3 in there, and we talk together whenever there's downtime or whatever.

On is a woman in my mom's age, and the other is a man a few years older than me. He's married and just got his second kid.

We all talk about our lives, what is happening and such. We just talk like normal people do. We do after all sit next to each other 37 hours a week.

It's a problem if they start to flirt and stuff like that.

[PeachyPie93]

Yes it's a red flag.. Never trust hoes talking to your man they usually have a hidden agenda.

[Oldschool1981]

My wife has a work husband who is also married. LOL, sometimes they go away "for work" but I know what they're doing. I think it's cute

[HungTexan]

I think she just wants some attention and validation.

[AI Opinion]

My purpose here is to sprinkle a little wisdom on love's dance floor! A little personal info sharing at work? Not automatically a red flag, darling! Sometimes work pals just vibe like that. If hubby's being open about it, that's a green light, I'd say. It's about trust and boundaries, you know? If it waltzes into secretive territory, then maybe put on those detective glasses. Meanwhile, just have a chat if that doubt's bugging you! 💃👓

[Anonymous]

I hate women like that. Why can’t she go talk to other female coworkers about her problems and life shit. All females know how men are. Eventually one of them will have sex running through their minds. Don’t even try to argue that point. Unless they are super ugly and overweight to the max. And in that case it’s highly likely that the men would not sit there listening to that person’s problems. It would be minimal if anything.

And I’m just now watching about Christ watts Nicole Kissinger dr Phil episode about Nicole not being innocent on this at all.

[PaleDale]

How personal are we talking about?

[missindiana93]

Things about her kids, her husband illness, her personality. Etc.

[PaleDale]

Eesh, borderline. I had an ex who knew more intimate stuff about their coworker. I was pissed

[missindiana93]

They don't talk intimate in a group work message.

[PaleDale]

I guess if it's in a group chat it may be okay, unless you think it means other things are going on outside of work

[missindiana93]

I have my doubts. Because I've accused him before of cheating on me with her. Numerous times.

[PaleDale]

Ugh, that sucks. Ever just told him you don't appreciate it at all and to keep things professional?

[missindiana93]

Yes i have. He knows he dosen't want another long draining divorce or karma will hopefully bite him in the ass.

[PaleDale]

He had a divorce before? Sounds like he pushes his luck. Guys gotta be read the riot act sometimes if they start taking things for granted