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Been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years, we see each other a couple times each month.

Got into a small argument over the phone and he said he wanted to end the conversation. He's about to hang up and I asked "were you not going to say I love you?" I usually have to initiate saying I love you after arguments so I was hoping he would say it this time.

He gets angry and asked why I'm controlling what he says and when he says it. He says pretty rudely "I don't know about you but when I'm angry I don't want to say that. I don't want to say anything. Why can't I say I love you later when I've calmed down?"

Because what if there's not a next time? What if something happens to us and the last thing we did was argue without saying I love you? I thought saying I love you regardless showed maturity and that you really loved each other.

But I guess I'm the crazy one

Plus, we had agreed early on in the relationship to not be petty and always make sure the other person knows that we love each other. I'm honestly really hurt.

Referring to Kyle

Six months ago, my ex-boyfriend cheated me with other woman. I was desperate to move on and went to dating site and met a Greek man who immediately flew to see me.

When we were still talking online, everything goes well! However, when we met in person, I realised he cannot control his anger when he cannot get his way, which makes me scared.

After a few months passed, I still had feelings for my ex-boyfriend and did reach out to him but I got more frustrated when I learned that he was getting married to the other woman.

I was depressed because of my ex but Kyle is still beside me. I lost my job but Kyle never leaves me. He wanted to meet me again this Christmas, but I'm confused with my feelings

Unexpectedly, I met a German man named Mario who only spent a vacation in my City. He is very kind and respectful. We spent time together and we were laughing and having so much fun. I started to like him, and he admits he does too. We kissed, but we never had sex since I told him, "Not yet!." He does not get mad if things don't go his way, which I really admire about him.

After a few days together, I was shocked that I was able to moved on from my ex-boyfriend because of Mario. I am complete again; however, when he leaves, I become broken again. I missed him and I was shocked Mario blocked me. He said he hasn't moved on yet from his ex, but he really likes me a lot. He may come back. I think he needs space. I missed him and wonder if he comes back.

My question here is: Should I break up with Kyle? If so, I am afraid no one will take me seriously. And Mario won't come back.

I am already 28. I am afraid I will never get married. Or should I fight for Kostas?