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What does “Don’t know what I am looking for” mean on a dating APP?

Profile of a guy I met on a dating app “Don’t know what I am looking for.” “Want children someday” ”Laid-back guy who doesn’t take life too seriously.” We’ve been texting for 3 weeks everyday, sending voice messages,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

It’s hard for me to trust people and my girlfriend insults me about it, what should I do?

So I’ve been with my girlfriend for 8 months, I have trouble taking people for their word so I generally ask for proof for things, today I asked my girlfriend for her work schedule because she was telling me she had to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a guy act like this?

My ex and I broke up two months ago and we agreed that it was best we have no contact because our relationship was very long and very serious so we need space to grow as individuals. We both agreed that we would keep...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, I regret having sex on second date. Does it always lead to disasters/situationships? Should I go for a few dates with no sex?

I (23f) went on a date with a guy (34m) and made it clear I'm looking for something long term on the first date. He said it takes him around two months to know if he wants something serious. We were intimate on the second...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

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Believers in soulmates and gut feelings?

So... I have this guy friend I've known for over 20 years.. since childhood.. we've always liked each other, and growing up as teens, he always showed interest but then would go ghost when it came to taking things...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would a guy lie about hooking up with girls? Is it just to make me jealous? Or is he testing me to see how I'm going to react?

The guy I'm talking about is my first love from high school, we had an on/off thing for years though it was never an official relationship. He moved away and I got married. After I left my husband, we started talking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, I'm usually friendly to almost anyone. I'm not too sure what to make of this guy?

He is tall, strong, and a man of few words. To greet me, he has walked by me and touched my arm a few times. When he did it, I just said hi. Another time, he poked the sides of my waist. Another time, I was wearing a crop...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why I Prefer Older Women Over Younger

I believe I wrote about this once. But doing it again anyway in 2024 lol, plus a few olders on here have asked me to write this repeatedly so here we are lol. I know a lot of men want young women, but for me I...

ManOnFire

Influencer Age: 39

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What make a men single until 40+ ? he doesn't want me and didn't let me go for 5 years?

I know this men for 5 years He was 36y/o smart successful kinda handsome has a good job stable financially and a straight man but he was and still single until 41 I don't say I am a catch and perfect but I am ok...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I handle a ghoster?

This guy ghosted me three months with no explanation but is still friends with one of my friends. My friend tells me everything he says about me. He asked her do I miss him and what guys have I been seeing. He ghosted me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, Ladies, would you cheat on your SO/boyfriend/hubby/life partner if they were permissive about it?

Personally, I'm mostly fine if my SO sees other guys while were in a relationship so long as she doesn't lie or get sneaky or neglect me. So long as I know she's committed to me, I'm mostly fine if she if she gets a...

billmunch

Xper 6 Age: 53

What am I doing wrong?

single for 3 years. Had many first dates, met many men, and have never found myself “dating” someone. Every guy I like, only sees me as fun and is either newly out of a relationship and “isn’t ready” or just isn’t...

Jam888

Xper 3 Age: 44

Society & Politics

Does this mean I never wanted (maybe never was) to be a goody-two shoes?

I'm wondering if the saying people (of both genders) are as loyal as their options applies here in my case too: During my childhood and early teen years, I've always had problems following up long-conversations. Many...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I a shallow/shitty person?

I am 28 and a single mum of a 4 year old girl. I’ve broken up with her dad due to being left alone most of the times after our baby was born. He had to go out and earn money to keep a roof over our head. But he also went...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Heard a serious allegation about my guy best friend and now stuck between him or my other friend circle?

I (19f) have known my guy bestie (19m) for 6 months now, we used to follow each other on insta as he was joining my program and he happened to know my ex and he helped me through my breakup and has been there for me a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to get over a crush who already has a girlfriend?

I have been crushing on his for a long time now, half a year. I truly hate myself for not asking someone about his relationship status sooner, BUT I am glad I did ask. I go to Muay Thai classes and one of the pro guys is...

Jemini_Crocket

Guru Age: 26