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I've been treating this site more like a porn site than its intended purpose and I was wondering what everyone thinks since it seems like it is getting unhealthy. Let me explain, I previously asked a question describing how I love talking with girls about their sex lives and hearing detailed descriptions of their sexual encounters. That is primarily what I began using this site for, to find girls over the age of 18 and PM to talk about her sex life with her. Whenever I found a girl to talk with me about this, I would be glued to this site so I wouldn't miss a new message from her, or have her forget about the convo and then it fizzles out. It also takes way more time than just getting off to adult videos where you just watch it and go about your business since you want to sustain the convo with her. What do you guys think, am I overreacting and doing this actually isn't that bad, or is it bad and I should delete my account?

For visualization purposes, let's say she is almost objectively the prettiest. Most people would say she's a 10.

One guy is the best looking guy in the bar, a 10, who just sits and waits for girls to talk to him because he is too shy. Overall a good guy though.

The next guy is pretty good looking by most people's standards, an 8, and he starts the conversation, but he does lack a little confidence and conversation skills, but he is genuine.

The next guy would be considered a 6 physically, but he's funny and confident and kind. He is a great conversationalist who always goes for what he wants.