For context- my husband (let's call him C) and I have been married for 4 months. Before I met C, my parents sold everything they had to buy me a piece of land to build a house. The initial idea was for me and my parents to live there, but after I married C, my parents stepped out and said it's fine for C and I to live there.
Although parents already paid for 70% of the complete cost of the house, the house is under my name (so legally mine and C's house) and C and I will be living there. I paid for 20% and C is only paying for the remaining 10%. However, when it was time for payment, C became reluctant. Further, C's parents accused me of wanting money, calling me greedy and called my parents greedy too. C's brother called me a gold digger and said I only married his brother for the money. C's brother is feeding C lies and is trying to sabotage our marriage.
Worst of all, although this is C's and my house, C is only paying for 10%. C's parents have 5 properties and a lot more in stocks but I never asked anything from them. I'm being called a gold digger because they dont want their son to pay for his own house. C never defends me, he smiles and laughs when his brother talks to me like that.
I feel so trapped with C, I want to get out of this marriage but I didn't sign a prenup and feel stuck.
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If i was you i would just leave him.
Is okay to scold your spouse in the private when just to of you are there. But not defending you when his family disrespect you is a big mistake.
You should just put your name the property your parents gave you, or property you got before your marriage.
It’s still 4 months, you still have time.
The marriage can be anulled before a certain time. Get a divorce now and he won't get shit. Talk to a divorce attorney tomorrow.
The guy sounds like a bum. Next time live with a guy before you marry him
Dump him. He doesn’t have your back