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In a heterosexual relationship, I'm curious to know which option both sexes would choose given the right circumstances were in place.

I encourage you to consider what would make you feel happiest and most fulfilled.

Try not to worry about what other people would think or want you to say.

You can vote anonymously if it helps.

Women - please read carefully

How many of you would prefer to be a wife and possibly a mom, IF you were guaranteed the man would treat you with love and respect for what you do?

That said, your husband encouraged and supported you in your passion projects, hobbies and part time work if it's something you chose to do. BUT your family would be your FIRST priority and your work and passions come second.

That said, you aren't the main bread winner.

OR, would you be happiest having a full time career and just hiring a nanny or the man be the homemaker?

Men - please read carefully

If all of the above applied to you and you could chose to be the breadwinner or the homemaker, which one would you chose? Let's say hypothetically, we are still living in a "perfect" world still. And your wife and society would treat you with love and respect despite which role you chose. What would you chose?

We get so many messages on what we should or shouldn't do based on our sexe. In fact there are mixed messages and views on it. At the end of the day, I'm curious to know what people truly desire if they new without a doubt they could trust their partner and the social pressures and judgments are completely removed.

I live alone and 25. I want have my first baby this year it’s been my dream have my child at age 26 and live with my partner. My mom wants me have no future no life just live with her forever til I’m old and it scares me she doesn’t understand I need have my own life my babies, be with my partner. All moms have a boyfriend or own home and she doesn’t. I’m not her boyfriend or her husband. Then gets mad when I tell her she needs find a boyfriend if she don’t want be alone. Then says I’m a bad child for not living with her forever and mad cuz I want a future and have dreams.

28F, my mom & I have always went through periods where we stop talking for a few weeks/months. Back in 2020, we got in a big fight & didn’t talk for a little over a year. I finally began talking to her again & we got back in an argument for the first time since Dec 2022. That was squashed after a weekend & got in another argument this Tues. It’s usually over petty things, I can be very argumentative & a good amount of the time she tries to rekindle. In 2020 I was living alone & I moved back in with her Nov 22. I don't know if we went a good amount of time not fighting bc I wasn’t living with her, I’m older now & hoped things would’ve changed. I really thought they did but I snap very easily, work has been stressful & we’re back to old ways. Bc of this, my anxiety is up the roof & not very content atm. My dad said we have a crazy relationship, mind you he & his mother’s relationship was worse. It makes me second guess if we’re really ok, I feel comfortable with her but we’re equally petty & too alike I guess?

I asked a few of my co workers and the male manager how there Christmas was and I mentioned to the manager that I celebrated Christmas on Christmas Eve due to my mom having to work on Christmas Day and he asked “what does your mom do?” I said “she’s a respiratory therapist at the local hospital and she gets to hangout with the babies and he said “awwww” I also mentioned that my birthday was a few days after and he said “happy late birthday”

I’m gonna re-ask this question because nobody understood me in the previous one.

Here’s the background:
My sister lives under my dad’s roof. Her boyfriend lives under his own Dads roof. They both have DEAD-END-JOBS. Like McDonalds. She’s 23, He’s 23.

My Mom Knows, I know because of my Mom. And my Dad doesn’t know.

My mom wants her to keep the baby because she doesn’t like Abortion. So she hasn’t told Dad.

And I personally know that when my narcissistic sister has the Baby, she’s gonna dump it on my Old Ass Parents.

SHOULD I TELL DAD?