Search Results: abusive

Is he playing games with me?

I split with my ex ten years ago, we split in the first year of university so we were both very young. We briefly reconnected last year, he made it clearly he wants to date again but I just wasn’t in the right head space...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex best friend is mad I won’t go to her wedding?

We were best friends since we were in 5th grade. She started dating her fiancé and he was very abusive. She married him when she got pregnant but he ended up leaving her before the baby was born. He stayed in touch with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do while in a emotionally and physically abusive relationship, how do I get out?

Me and my partner had been together since high school the start of our relationship was in freshman year, Before I had my baby back in August me and my partner was in a healthy relationship, we even went through so much...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Did she say this to provoke the argument further?

So this relationship was 2 years I poured my heart and soul into it I was not only there for her but her sister as well. This girl was both physically abusive and verbally abusive the day she went home and called her mom...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I wrong for feeling this way?

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a few months now and when he drinks he turns into a jerk and is verbally abusive and has in the past hit/thrown things. He told me he would change and that didn’t last long. Most recently...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Do you believe money can be just as addictive as heroin?

I think experiences that you buy can work on you like a drug, it can give you major highs, but it can also corrupt your soul and make you selfish and abusive. It can desolate you of all compassion and love and it can...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Should divorced men be put on public registries?

Divorced men are Instant red flags and usually abusive. For women's safety should there be online resources for women to find out if a man they interact with is divorced or not to proceed with caution?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend asked for space is it over? ?

I want to start by saying that I am devastated. I am in love with him and saw us one day getting married. For context I get upset easily, I have had emotional outbursts when I have felt disrespected. I have grown up in a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it normal to have your faith in women destroyed with 1 bad relationship?

I had never dated prior to this point and I was 29 but it went so bad to where she was both physically and mentally abusive. Manipulative everyone around us turning them against me even though I was the one being abused...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a guy a fool for staying in an abusive relationship?

Maybe it’s due to being on the autism spectrum maybe it’s part of my personality but I always somehow can find good in people and it led to me staying in a relationship where I was getting beat on and called horrible...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to deal with a sister who is bitter about my relationship?

I recently reconnected with my sister who I haven't spoken to since 2022. She was mad at me for leaving my ex who was abusive towards me (she didn't know at the time) but when she found out the things he did she was still...

TheLovelyIntrovert

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

Is it just not worth dating again if you just start to see women as your abusive ex girlfriend?

Like I just think it will happen again

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my dad keep picking fights with me? Growing up he made inappropriate comments about my body and my age and my intelligence?

Random yesterday he said I was 28 knowing that I literally would be 28 next year. Way later. Not anytime soon. And he started to get mad when I corrected him. He knows my birthday. And he is a freakin creep and weirdo. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do girls hold onto relationship gifts?

She was physically and verbally abusive she beat on our dog she threw temper tantrums when she couldn’t get her way. She would call me bitch and nuisance a lot. I was always there for her around the holidays I would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think it’s justifiable for a woman to terminate her pregnancy if her partner revealed to be a horrible violent monster?

let’s say she later found out the partner is an abusive psychopath with very bigoted views. If he finds out about the pregnancy, he and his family would fight tooth and nail to take her baby and raise it to be just like them.

Tammy307

Xper 1 Age: 35

Dating

I sleep with a guy who is more than 10 years older than me and I am depressed because he doesn't love me?

He is 37, I am 24. He is wealthy and successful. He swept me off my feet. Tall, lean and so intelligent and confident. Charismatic also. Came from a broken abusive household with abusive father and made it. We met last...

Anastasia877

Xper 1 Age: 26