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I thought most all girls move out and live with boyfriend? I’ve seen many girsl living with boyfriend and have baby & get married years after. Some get lucky and married at 18 . Some divorced single mom with 4 kids. I’m 25 live alone as it’s my dream have my own tiny apartment. I grew up with parents fighting screaming daily as my dad used drugs. Back then I wasn’t able to run away but now as an adult I can run away.
mom says I need live with her until I’m married I can’t live alone. I visit her every 2 months & she stressed me out yesterday when I saw her. All she did at the market was force me get married now cuz my brothers wife’s 5 sisters all are married & im not. The youngest is 28 & got proposed last week.
im angry cuz a girl cannot know wen she’ll marry it’s a secret. Girls do not give rings to men and kneel down to propose.
I’m sad as I have super religious freak family 😓 my landlord isn’t like that she lives with her daughter & she’s not married has 4 kids &her mom isn’t angry at all cuz she has 4 kids & not married.
my mom would beat me for having my first baby at 26 & not married. She knows where I live so she would demand landlord to see me at my house to beat me 😥& she would faint of misery I have baby & not married.
my bfs younger sister has many kids and not married either & her mom isn’t angry or disowning her at all but they all live together with her boyfriend too. 🙁😓

So my boyfriend is having some work issues & today he made a comment if I can't wait 1-2 days for a response maybe I should walk away. He forgets I waited 2 months for him to get sorted earlier in the year - he's still not sorted out - with barely any communication from him.

See it's frustrating because he's trying to shoulder everything himself - though I am more than able to assist him (it's the way he grew up I think, his mum wasn't educated & dad died young so he had to "be an adult" before his time) - and because of this he's causing excessive strain to himself. Instead of asking for help or taking the help I am offering.

And today I made it clear I WANT to help you. And yet rethinking what he said earlier - about walk if can't wait 2 days for a response when I waited 2 months earlier - it's like would he actually appericate that help or would he just used it and when sort out leave / break up.

Or would it be better to just... walk away. I mean you can't force someone to accept your help and if they don't want it, what is there.