Search Results: friends thoughts on relationships

Why does he ask my thoughts and feelings, and then says he currently doesn’t want a relationship?

This guy I've known for six months as a friend, but there's a stronger connection between us. He has asked me several times, what do I want from him? and what I am looking for? but then shuts down saying he doesn’t want...

Candylassi

Xper 2 Age: 37

Left for a friend when it became a ldr? Is there something wrong with me? To want them back?

I will try to summarize, met online and the first date was on Valentine's and she showed up over 4 hours late and drunk (feel free to call me a dumbass for continuing) we started dating and it came to light she has bpd...

iamathrowaway

Xper 1 Age: 34

How to date again after being cheated on? How to trust people again?

Long story short about my past experience: I[M28] was cheated on in my previous relationship of 7 years by person that I trusted completely and that looked like a type of the person that would never cheat. After that I...

dontkey_hot

Xper 2 Age: 31

Why ask me how I feel and then he said he doesn't want a relationship?

Candylassi

Xper 2 Age: 37

Is there still a chance?

my ex and I have had a tumultuous relationship to say the least. Thats not to say it’s been particularly bad, just difficult. He broke up with me after only a couple months of dating, even though things seemed really good...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My crush is now dating a girl he never speaks to and basically ignores, is this normal for young teens?

My crush is pretty flirty with me - I’m the only girl he talks to in class, he stares at me, tries to get really close to me, smiles a lot when we’re talking likes he’s so happy to be around me, tries to make me laugh....

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Just shy of third base but no feelings?

Been seeing this girl for like 3 months. On Monday, we kissed for the first time. It was amazing and still feels a little unreal. We made out for a couple hours while cuddling, and she was SO into it. If we both weren't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How would you handle someone you're in a long term relationship with, saying that they had doubts about you?

My guy friend has been dating his girlfriend for nearly 2 years. I, like all my friends, thought they were super happy together because there was no indication otherwise, but he told me that she recently told him that she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I need encouraging words, please can you share?

I just ended a situation-ship that I thought was pretty healthy. I've been in a relationship with someone for a year now. I basically sleep at their house daily, he tells me he loves me, we spend holidays and do things...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I started dating my best friend and things have changed for the worse. How do I deal with this?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month now. Before this we were friends for years , he has liked me for 5. He has been through two breaks ups with me and we have always talked about what we expect from a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Got called a “loser” and “weird” by my ex for not having a close guy friend - would this be considered a red flag for dating in the future?

I’m a 30F and I’ve never had a close guy friend. I only have like 2 guys outside of my family that I barely talk to, and that’s commenting on our insta stories. They both are platonic and live pretty far away. In high...

almondeyes24

Xper 1 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Was my ex a player/f*ckboy? or was our relationship just not good?

Hi. I am in the military. I dated this guy who was an NCO as I was a PFC. we were in different sections so its not fraternization. Anyways, we started dating after I had checked up on him for the fact he was sharing his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend of three years had a fling with a woman in the early stages of our relationship. Am I wrong to feel upset that they keep in touch?

This only came to light a year into our relationship and he says she came on to him. He said after one night he put a stop to it and then carried on as friends. I now find out after we’ve been going out for 3 years she...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

His do I know if he’s actually into me or just wants sex?

I know every dude wants sex, but I am conflicted on the signs if that’s ALL he wants or if he is genuinely trying to get to know me. to be fair he asked me out (twice I believe?) and i rejected him twice telling him I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, how would you feel about men competing about being with you?

I'd strictly avoid even making it appear like that, but some other guy seriously first said he had a friend with benefits because she didn't want a relationship. Then he approached another woman telling her he was looking...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Am I the one who is the problem?

I need advice from people who aren't my friends. I've never really had luck in relationships, but I have learned from them. I will admit that I do settle for people who aren't really on my level. My current boyfriend at...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Why do young women misinterpret a guy's words?

I'm not just talking about the ridiculous "What does it mean when a guy says (such and such)?" questions. I mean in general, and I say young women because I very rarely have a conversation with women my age or older where...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39