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I like my boss. He is such a sweetheart! He makes eye contact when we talk, laughs/jokes with me, tries to invite me to work outings (which I usually avoid unless they're mandatory), etc. I know he's my boss, but he makes it a point to let me know he'll accept a call for help at any time of the day and wants me to call him when I'm feeling down... I joked about the latter when he first suggested it and accidentally chuckled in a sultry way, which he seemed to do in return? I felt there was some "tension" between us at that time... but that could have been my own "tension" talking.

I love that he's respectful to women regardless of looks, and I also realize that he might not be into me and is just being kind. DGMW, I'm not ugly... but I'm very aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea... I've been reminded of that multiple times since I was young. Penelope/Colin relationships, especially ones where Pen looks more like Kate or Lady Danbury than Daphne or Queen Charlotte, are uncommon. I've also noticed my coworkers (mostly the women) acting funny towards me ever since this one time he told me he liked my hair. I can't tell when I'm liked because it's so few and far between, so I don't know if they're seeing something I'm not or just being weird... don't men compliment hair?

I made the mistake of dating a coworker while we worked together years ago; I wouldn't dare pursue a relationship with a coworker now. I've also been rejected by every guy I've ever confessed to, so I'm hesitant to put myself out there. I want him to make the first move, but I'm also worried, if he feels the same way, that he's too scared to say anything to me... so I want to try to "guide" him to me. I told him a few months back that I wanted him to "not be a stranger" with me after I quit, and he's said I should let him know when I'm quitting. "Tension" made me feel he was saying it in that sort of way, and I'm thinking of revisiting that convo when I tell him I'm quitting.

I had a weird experience with a masseuse recently. First, she was located inside some large warehouse in a remote location that was locked. It made me nervous so I called her and she assured me she had a room in the warehouse and liked to keep the building locked between clients. Second, she gave me this tiny see through underwear and bra which showed everything and kept making things pop out and show. Third, she didn’t cover me with anything when massaging. When I asked her to incorporate wood sculpting, it was clear she didn't know what she was doing and it left bruising that didn't go away for weeks.

Plus, she focused too much on my hips and butt. Fourth, and this is the weirdest, she had me get up and walk to her so she could massage me standing up because she said something like people look different at various angles? And then she also charged me way more than a normal session and blew up when i said I called it out and said i would not be returning. Is any of this normal? This is my first time getting a lymphatic massage and I dont know what general best practices are but i feel kind of sick to my stomach and it just feels like something wasn't quite right. But i did check her reviews and she eerily has a ton of 5 star glowing reviews..