Search Results: should i be honest with him

There’s this guy that I randomly met at a drag show. I started being friendly cause he was there alone. We exchanged instagrams and he told me he needed friends to go to shows with cause his friends weren’t into it.

I was like sure, whatever. We went to one show with another one of my friends and it was fine.
Then we went to another show with just me and him and honestly…I’m gagged lol

We went through a drive through and he was super rude to the worker for no reason. He was rude to people sitting next to us at the show. He was being super judgmental. This is the second time we’ve gone out and I’ve seen enough of his character…he’s such a bitch and I’m good lol. He admitted it too, he was like “yeah I’m such a bitch if you can’t tell 🤪” like no baby I can tell, and it’s not cute.

this is why I need to stop being so friendly with literal strangers, that’s on me.

So anyways. There’s another show coming up and he was saying “oh we need to go”
And I know my actual friends were talking about going. I don’t want to invite him lol.
Should I be honest and tell him straight up that I’m not a fan of his rude behavior…
Or should I just like ghost/come up with an excuse

cause I know he’s gonna hit me up about going together.

This girl, that I used to work with, and i started talking February. And we used to talk almost everyday. It almost seemed like neither wanted the convo to end.

We didn't hang earlier in the year until one day she visited me at work one day. She had lost her job and i didn't want to put too much on her plate.

We did hangout twice after that as well. The first time the vibes were amazing and it felt good but tbh i felt like i wqs exhausted after that day.

The second time didn't go as well as the first. It did feel different but i wouldn't say it went bad.

She said she had a good time and when i asked that we should do it again, she basically said yea but it might have to be until after August.

I told her to message me whenever she's down. I haven't heard back from her since.

she's working in her field and im trying to get my life together. If im being honest im not happy where i am at life and my confidence is lacking. And im pretty sure she's aware of that.

Nevertheless, i really fancy this girl she's amazing and And i fucking suck at dating.

Part of me thinks i should not message her because i dont want to come off as pushy

The difference in age between my lady and me is almost 15+ years.

When i first met her i thought she was nice but later i found out i fel in love with her. Older man often like younger women and often talk about it laughing over our own ideas. But when it happend... I was scared to death.. turned out she was too. she never expect she would fall for an older man.

People often say she will leave because older men have nothing to offer , can't make babies ( or should not because they are like grandpa's..

We hare happy. And care less what other have to say about it.

But now i'm here and like to know why you think it can or can't. I dare you all to be honest so that we finally understand... So this is kind of research project 😃🤣