Search Results: tell him I am not interested

When you know someone clearly has the hots for you , the signs are there, Do you approach them first or wait for them to make the first move?

I see this girl every day when I go to work and she parks in the same parking garage as me and I notice wherever I park she parks next to me , I usually sit in my car for a little bit playing on my phone before walking...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

How can you tell if he's interested?

Recently we've been getting closer it's a little hard too tell because he's my coworker but we go on walks together 1:1. EVERYtime I'm with him we grow physically close too each other well. I noticed lol it's so tiny but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do u know your crush likes u back based on the emojis she sends?

Here’s my story, I liked this girl for a long time 5 years about to be 6 years in a few months. I met her in my freshman year of college and we are good friends. I have been open about how I felt about her and my feelings...

Guywithbigheart

Xper 1 Age: 27

My sister is a pick me, how do I deal with it?

I have no one to talk about this to because it isn’t acceptable to talk about your sibling that way. My sister is 7 years older than me and she loves attention from guys, this doesn’t bother me when it doesn’t meddle with...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do women admire guy with pretty girlfriend?

I always had pretty girlfriends but I'm not super handsome. My female friends always point out at this fact. One old school mate even told me that "my standard were too high for her" (I don't recall her being interested...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I always had pretty girlfriends but I'm not super handsome. My female friends always point out at this fact. One old school mate even told me that "my standard were too high for her"

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Flirting

Was she flirting or just being nice?

This one is tricky. I already discussed it with friends but I wanted other perspectives because they say the girl was flirting with me but I have my doubts: I was stopped by a female NGO fundraiser who had my same age...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it normal to developed feelings for someone you didn’t have feelings for?

I can’t stop thinking about my guy friend. I don’t a relationship romantically but lately I’ve been thinking about him every damn day. I’ve rejected him so many times when he asked he out on a date. I told him I have no...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why doesn’t friend turn every guy down that we introduce her too?

She’s been single for five years and we haven’t hooked her up in a couple years. Every time we told her a guy was interested in her, she always says she isn’t ready or she doesn’t thing she would make a great girlfriend...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he so cold towards me?

This young guy I like.. we been talking for quiet sometime, but with me being 44 and he is 23 I don’t want to feel like I’m robbing the cradle, but just recently although this been going back and forth for some time now,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do people keep telling me to work on my confidence so much?

every time I ask my friends if I am ugly, they always tell me that I look fine and that I need to work on my confidence. If I ask them to rate me 1-10, they would never give me a number but just that I need to be more...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you date someone who looks similar and has similar personality/traits as you?

Years ago I met a guy on a dating site that could pass as my twin brother, we even had similar traits and personality. I found him attractive and we exchanged small talk, but ultimately he opened up and told me it...

Iquestioneverything

Xper 5 Age: 37

How do I tell a guy who likes me I'm not interested?

Sammygirl9287

Xper 3 Age: 15

Why does he want to be there for the consultation?

So my ex basically told me he wasn’t really interested in me and that he was only having sex with me because i wanted to and that he didn’t see me as relationship material. He told me all this after i told him i was...

DomKDevk

Xper 2 Age: 29

Boys, have you ever had an experience with a girl who was interested in you but you rejected her and that only made her bother you for a while?

If you answer yes, tell what happened and how? What did she do?

jeffersongutierritos

Xper 1 Age: 26

Does it seem like he wants to date me?

There is this guy I’ve been seeing for a little over a month now. We have talked on the phone and texted every day since I met him. It started off casual and just talking and stuff. We’ve been on two dates. He met my...

rach27

Explorer Age: 45

Does he see me as just a friend?

OG Post: Does his physical touch mean he likes me? As I (25 F) spend more time with my guy friend (20 M), I realized my feelings are growing stronger. He has opened up to me yesterday when we hung out an office he had...

LuminousMind

Xper 6 Age: 26

Why would he do this out of the blue?

He blocked you to try to control you because you seen right through his manipulation for 9 months and you cut him off for the same amount of time. You both work together. He gets mad controlling and upset at you talking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy says he’s emotional about breaking up with you, is he really?

I know it’s a stupid question. I’m 36 he’s 39. We didn’t actually define the relationship so I’m not sure if it’s a real “breakup” but I’m treating it as such because I was interested enough to date only him without...

Anonymous

(36-45)