Search Results: some girls just want to be friends

Guys, Why is this guy unnecessarily rude to me?

So there's this guy that’s a bit of a character. He’s those types that says out of pocket shit all the time. Most girls find him insufferable and weird. I’m one of those girls. The only difference is that he treats me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is my friend secretly a fake friend?

I’ve been friends with this girl for around about two years. We don’t meet up that often but along the way I’ve gotten the impression she is not really a true friend or gossips about me behind my back and I don’t 100%...

ML2939

Xper 3 Age: 32

Everyone in my friend group calls me Barbie. What do they mean by that?

I’ve been in a good friend group with some guys ever since 7th grade. When 9th grade rolled around, they all started calling me Barbie. When I asked them why, they said “everything about you looks exactly like a Barbie.”...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Is it normal for a guy to give a girl her favorite drink as a thank you?

So I have this irregular classmate of mine. What I mean for an Irregular classmate is that his class schedule is different from our block section schedule. He's from another section, but because he enrolled late (I guess...

AlienDummy28

Xper 1 Age: 22

Fashion & Beauty

How to hide my identity in public without making any long term changes on my appearance?

So, I want to hide my identity for a couple of days. I have my long distance boyfriend who I meet a few times throughout the year. However, I live in a very conservative society and having any romantic connection before...

Anonymous

(18-24)

On a scale of 1 to 10, how big an idiot am i? Lol but seriously, I need outside perspective on if there is anything there?

So my best friend is a guy. We have been through a lot for each other and known each other for years and have a strong emotional connection. Things have gotten flirtatious but never crossed into sex. I have a strict no...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do she interested in me?

I and this girl are coworker yeah first time we talk because we are playing same game , then after that we be friend but one day i say you are cute in chat , she send back gif with confused face and say she took a long...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Do you tend to value men or women's opinions more? Why?

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's all ears and ready to take the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's

Anyways, it made me question whose opinions I tend to value? I am very stubborn and not many people can get through to me. I can only think of one girl who has just really gotten through to me but I guess I notice that it’s mostly been guys, thus I value men’s opinions more.

I don't know if my guy simply values the male view more because he’s so insecure and intimidated by other men, which he says all the time. But I value the guys perspective because I want to know how to captivate, communicate with, and better understand the gender that I’m attracted to.

Some may call that a “pick me” but I don’t consider it the same thing. I feel pick me’s seek validation while I more so want advice and guidance. Who better to understand a guy I’m into than a guy himself?

If I wanted advice on how to improve my appearance, dress style or to better control my emotions, then I’d seek a woman’s advice since we better understand one another’s insecurities and reactions. I rarely ask other women for advice on guys though because so many take it as competition to go after that same guy. Its so weird. Girlcode always seems to go out the window.

Another thing could be that I grew up looking up to my grandpa more than anyone else. I also got along best with my male cousin and my uncle. My friends have always been 90% guys. Like, my mom held it down for a bit but her inconsistent behavior and broken promises really got to me. So I stopped looking up to her. Maybe she, my grandma and a bunch of flaky female friends and cousins ruined it for other women too.

Some men have wronged me but never as many men as women. I guess same can be said for my boyfriend since he feels more women have wronged him yet all I ever see these days is men treating him badly. #FeelFreeToList

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Have you ever scared to communicate with people cause you’re ugly?

I am ugly or just overweight but I know cute chubby girls so I guess I’m just ugly😭 sometimes I want to be friends with some people but I barely communicate with them cause I think they’re better than me and we will stop...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He rejected me 10 months ago but now wants to see me?

There’s this guy Evan that I’ve liked for such a long time, we’ve always been friends. He’s my friend’s bf’s brother and over the past 6 years we’ve always been flirty. Never did anything till 10 months ago we hung out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a woman want physical touch with a man she isn't dating?

Been seeing this girl for just over a month. We've got to know each other well, and she's been very vocal about how much she enjoys spending time together and getting to know each other. We aren't dating, we're currently...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy I'm seeing was sending rude texts about me to his friend?

I reconnected with a guy I dated years ago and we've been hanging out for 2 weeks. Whenever we see each other, we hang out for 12 hours straight and he's made it clear he likes me and is really into me. Last night I came...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Guys, What is this "I miss you" text from an old friends with benefits about?

Guy I used to hang out with, but we were never serious. I have a strong tendency to live and die by the agreements I make. He said he didn't want a relationship so I said "Cool, don't be in one" and treated him like a...

SomeNobody

Xper 1 Age: 36

I don’t know why I feel bad, but am I wrong?

So I have a friends with benefits with a guy that has been going on here in there for some time. Long story short, he’s been telling me all these things that every girl wants to hear. he randomly asked me where are some...

Hawaiikai

Xper 7 Age: 31

Relationships

Should I believe what this psychic told me about her?

I have a close friend. We share a deep emotional bond. We have “flirted” before but casually and my friend has told me she’s flirted with friends when she lived in her hometown. We’re both bi girls and we’ve drunkenly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does she really want that date? What should I do?

(29F) Girl I (25M) like was teasing me during the first month we met through friends. Once she replied an Instagram story telling she loved the place I posted. Another day I went the same place, I send her a photo and she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What should I think about this girl who likes me and whose situation I will detail below?

I have a friend at work. One day we had a discussion where I confessed that I like her as more than a friend. She, in turn, confessed to me that she likes me for a very long time. I proposed to her to do more things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Entertainment & Arts

Have you ever read a book that brought you to tears because of how close the main character mirrors your own life?

I just started reading this new book, where this guy who was 18, got a job on a farm run by an older lady (older by his standards 27). That's not the part that mirrors me though. It's his back story. His mother and...

worldscolide

Master Age: 43