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As i told shadowdweller in his question, I don’t want to rent nor buy, but I intend to build a home which I guess is basically buying. I saw an opinion mention that they prefer to wait and see what their future spouse would want. I think thats sweet but hella risky. So here's where I stand... If my house is built before I am engaged/married, then I’m keeping my house. I will not be renting it out. He can either move in with me or we can get a new separate place but I will absolutely be going back to the house I built anytime I feel like it lmao. And its technically not a bachelorette pad but if thats what you wanna call a 3 bed 2 bath home then so be it. Now if i am renting an apartment or something before having gotten engaged to him, then yea, I don’t mind giving that up. But once my baby is built, I’m not renting it out nor selling it. And just moving in to the guys place would ONLY happen if we’re engaged and my home is not yet built. #FeelFreeToList

I’ve been considered a crazy girl. I have chased guys some. I have told them how I felt about them. I have made the first move. I have texted a guys a lot. Especially when we were fighting, they were ignoring, and what not.

All dating games on the internet. Pretend not to like them. Send short vague texts and wait to reply to theirs. Let them chase you. Make them jealous. Go no contact in certain situations. Blah blah blah. Yeah. That’s not me.

So, this guy friend kind of invited me to his place. We're friends but he's like the "friend of a friend". I've had a crush on him for a while, not a major crush tho, though I just find him cute. He's never made a move on me, we've met in groups a few times and I assumed he was dating our mutual friend or that at least they have something going on. I've never been able to prove this tho and I didn't bother asking. But he's hinted that he's single. Long story short, he flirted with me after I posted a picture and I harmlessly flirted back. One thing led to another and he invited me over to his place to " test out something new he just got" (an inside joke). I don't mind visiting but I'm not sure if he really likes me or if he was just joking with the invite. Also, maybe he's the type who randomly invites girls to his place, I'm not even sure if he doesn't have a girlfriend like he's hinted.

I also wouldn't want him to think I'm easy. Should I go over? Or I should wait for him to mention it again?

PS: we already jokingly picked a day. I don't want a situation where it turns out I misread the signals and was excited about nothing. I screamed when he asked if I would come over.