Search Results: make the first move

Should I initiate the first hangout?

Should I be the one to make the plans if I make the initial first hangout? If I make the first move on him and initiate the first hangout ever, should I be the one inviting him? For example I wanna ask him to hang out.....

Anonymous

(18-24)

In this dating generation: Why do guys say they want women to make the first move, but reject her because she made the first move?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I tell my girlfriend about my old habit of checking on my ex’s social media’s ?

Im not really sure if I should tell her, I’ve never cheated on her and I’m very honest with her even if it hurts me and her but I don’t like to think that I ever lied to her. This habit started way before I met my...

akitahuskyboy

Xper 3 Age: 26

Whats the best way to get a guy to ask you out?

I like this guy and I think he likes me back but I don’t believe women should make the first move. What can I do to subtly let him know I’m interested and want to go out with him?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys like when girls make the first move?

Is it too desperate to make the first move? And how do I do it without being too straightforward so I don’t scare him away if he doesn’t like me? Do guys actually like when girls make the first move or no?

idkkkk24

Xper 3 Age: 24

Family & Friends

Overwhelming guilt, do I make amends... should I?

I haven't seen my former classmate since 6th grade. I had her in my classes for both 5th and 6th grade. A brief flashback to the past, my friends and I knew her by another name and many things happened that I'm now...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Help with sitting on boyfriend?

Heyy, this my first post as I’ve got a few questions that I’d like answering, that are personal and a little embarrassing however I want to react accordingly, I’m recently in a relationship of a few months with this...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Why do people have to move away? Why can’t things stay the same?

One of my best friends is moving across the country because of a new job opportunity and she’s very excited but sad because she’s leaving out hometown. I don’t want her to leave. At first I told her whatever choice she...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Why does my girlfriend smile so joyfully when in a important topic that is causing harm to our relationship which is her doing and I cry?

This woman is the love of my life. She is traumatized from a 7 year relationship to a person that was her world , gave him a son and on a important day she found he chested on her with almost everyone around. This broke...

Chestpains

Xper 1 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, Is it possible my ex wife wants to come back to me?

My wife and I are in a separation. We rarely talk. When we first were in the separation, she would ask me for advice and help but then it got quiet. Over the last few months, she has been asking for my help more. She had...

Goodguy8072

Xper 3 Age: 39

Is it wrong for me to try to pursue a relationship with an attractive woman if I am not attractive?

I am not ugly, but I am not conventionally attractive either, mainly because of my very small stature. I try my best to look attractive by wearing nice clothes and proper grooming. A lot of people will say that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Do most girls rely on a guy to make the first move so that they can get into a relationship?

I was watching this interaction between a guy and a girl and it was clear that the girl kept on staring at the guy crotch when he wasn't looking and he just didn't get the hint so she never ended up going any further with...

chris_987

Yoda Age: 38

Does him cuddling me after I "fell asleep" on him mean he likes me?

So, I have this friend and he's sweet and touchy with all our friends, but I've never seen him cuddle any of them before. We were sitting side by side in the backseat of one of our friends' car. Not even touching. We hit...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I think he's stringing me along as a backburner chick, what do you guys think?

I knew this guy for over a year and recently found out he is in a 2 year relationship with a girl in Thailand. He says he thinks about me all the time but wants to try and make it work with her first. He regularly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I mess up any chance I may have had with him?

So I took a liking to this guy. We had good conversation, laughs, always hug when we see each other etc and you can tell that we liked each other. The feelings were mutual and they showed. The thing is, we would only...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to make an advance at my girlfriend?

So a bit of information about us, I'm (26 M) an expat living in a foreign country in South East Asia. I go to the gym 9 times a week and have a rather high income although not in the top 1% or anything like that. My looks...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

If we're not "dating", but like each other, why did she joke about "finally trying to kiss her"?

We're not dating, because, whatever reason she's giving, i dk, but, we do like each other and she'll even say the big LO word as well. I won't though, for many reasons. However, a few months ago, we finally kissed. Never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My partner wants kid and I don’t. Are we endgame?

We have gone to couples therapy they advised us we are not the people we would be to make that decision in 10 years. They recommended we talk about it We have a hard chat I offered to break up as I don’t think I will...

AppleAppleApple69

Xper 3 Age: 26