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I’m not suggesting to do so just wondering if any of you do. I have done so since about age 7, except when I was 14 & trying to gain weight —and finally had the wherewithal do to so healthily after I left home. I always thought one meal was bc it’s all I had time & enough good for but even now that I have access to plenty of food, I prefer 1 meal.

My energy is way better prior to eating (provided I have eaten the previous day, otherwise I’ll just get too relaxed & content to stare at the sky 😂)

I hate having to think about what to eat or spend time presiding food nor do I enjoy sitting for a meal…. Having one meal a day at whatever time whatever place I find convenient keeps food as something i take in for sustenance without having to revolve hardly any time around it. Mentally or physically. Which for me is very liberating —vs my childhood a completely diff situation where food played an unhealthy role through my guardian as a means of control over me.

I hate sleeping on a remotely full stomach. Eating once a day leaves plenty of time from meal to bed time. I rest way better and I never have to get up to one. 😴

Much easier to make sure everything I eat is really healthy and I never accidentally eat bad or am in need of food bc I never have anything unexpectedly.

My stomach suffered nerve Damage from childhood & one meal day provides flexibility for rest when it’s less efficient without my losing on calories bc I’m trained to eat what I need within a relatively small window. If poor appetite, I will have nutritional supplements.

It leaves me time for other activities I literally think of food no more than once a day -if that. I understand food is a great joy for many they love to plan prepare share etc etc for me I love the efficiency of one meal. I know of a philosopher from 1600 who ate only lunch. & In china they have practices “ half pi gu” for centuries & I see it as a current fad for weight loss on YouTube “OMAD”

My good friend and I are moving into an apartment together in a few days! We're both excited as it should be a good fit. Of course there's the dreaded bedroom decision. The master bedroom is larger in size (about 15ft x 10ft). The 2nd bedroom is about 10ft x 10ft and has a larger closet. I'm not sure how to bring up the conversation as I don't want to lead into any sort of disagreement right off the bat, even though we're both agreeable people.

I believe I should get the master because 1. I'm moving in first, 2. I will be there 100% of the time, 3. I work from home 3/5 days per week and would be able to set up a desk area for myself, 4. Im paying the first months rent alone since she's leaving to Europe for 2 weeks and won't be moving in until her old lease is up in July, and I am also the primary resident on the lease, I found and viewed the apartment, I paid and initiated the applications and had to make sure she stayed on top of what she needed to send in and pay for.

I think she wants the master because she has a king bed and she also has a 7 year old son. BUT her son primarily lives with his dad. She usually visits him where they live a few hours away, but occasionally she'll bring him up for a weekend during his school breaks. I told her if she decides to bring him up more often, i am more than happy to watch him while she works. She also has a long distance boyfriend who visits rarely as he's from the UK (we're in the US) and I won't really have visitors. She is looking for a remote or hybrid job also, but she currently works at a bar.

I think the decision is obvious, in my favor. However, the conversation hasn't come up yet and I just don't want to create any bad blood. I even offered before to pay more of the rent since she wouldn't be there as often but she refused and said we'd split it 50/50, after the first month.

How do you think this should be brought up and who do you think should get the master?