Search Results: is it hard to get a girlfriend

Can’t you explain?

So I had a one night thing a year ago and had no intention to be anything with this guy. The sex was out of this world which we both were surprised about that and we started to meet sometimes ca 1 or 2 a month. (We don’t...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this physical abuse or I am overreacting?

When I get mad at my boyfriend I can be very immature and childish, I don’t like being hugged or kissed and I just want a moment for myself, he finds this very annoying and forces himself on me: he grabs my hand...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this an unhealthy way to deal with arguments?

My boyfriend and I just had an argument (well a couple hours ago). When we argue I feel like he doesn‘t listen to me and only waits to speak and tell me what he thinks, disregarding what I had just said. It got to the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my boyfriend cruel to me or am I just too sensitive?

I'm having a really hard time to figure out my boyfriend. Our first weeks were really beautiful and I felt so much in love, he even introduced me to his parents very early and told me that he loves me and is serious about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this relationship doomed?

So i (23M) and this girl (22F) work together with other college students. About 9 months back myself and this girl began to text eachother and we eventually made out one night. She's a very private person and although she...

Expressomantini

Xper 5 Age: 27

I feel dreadful. How can I move on?

I never wanted it to happen the way it did and I feel ashamed of myself. I always thought IF HE EVER became single then perhaps I’d tell him how I felt & see if he’d like to get to know each other privately eg a date or...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

What is the Allure & Mystery of younger women dating older men? Why is it frowned upon by so many people, especially the Religious crowd?

I grew up in Atlanta and Decatur, GA. All my gfs liked older men, often had crushes on the dads and stepdads. We were all low income, often with a single mom or a stepdad. Too many brothers and sisters in the...

wingattebaby16

Guru Age: 31

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Is only wanting a girlfriend for sex the equivalent of being with a man for money?

Aren't both similar in this manner: If a girl walks around and ask men ''do you want to have sex with me'', she'll find them easily. Any man can give us pleasure. That's like asking if dogs like chowing on bones. It's so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Does my guy friend like me?

Here’s what made me think he might like me: - He’s getting me a necklace from where he’s vacationing (granted, he asked what souvenir I wanted and I said a necklace would be nice, but he’s been asking a lot of questions...

FearedMoose

Xper 3 Age: 21

I realized that I am controlling and don’t know why I am like this or how to fix it?

First off I just want to say I don’t want to be like and didn’t even KNOW that I was like this until I got into a serious relationship. I am controlling and hate myself for it. The reason it is hard for me to stop is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why doesn't she think she's beautiful?

Lately my girlfriend has been feeling down about herself. She feels like I shouldn't be attracted to her She doesn't feel beautiful/sexy. Now matter how much I tell her she is she doesn't feel like she is. She feels...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Trying to talk to a guy who is clearly interested in me, but is constantly leaving me on read. What should I do?

This guy and I have been flirting for months. He is clearly interested in me. I’m clearly interested in him. We tell each other everything. In class, we stare at each other, smile at each other, etc. We talk for hours...

lovingblossom

Xper 2 Age: 27

Should I reach out to the guy I like?

In March, I had asked him if I get to see him before he graduates and he said that he was down to grab coffee or something sometime soon. I (dumbly) said, "Sounds good, just don't make me wait too long" and that ended...

roxystars19

Xper 6 Age: 27

Am I dumb for not having any experience with women besides getting ghosted or ignored by them? I feel so far behind the curve it's depressing?

I rarely talk to women, most of my friends have a girlfriend's, I try and talk to girl's but in the end I get hurt. I find it ridiculously hard to get dates. I don't bother flirting because I feel like most would shut me...

poneglyphs

Guru Age: 31

Am I a narcissist?

My family always said I was a narcissist but I don't really love myself all that much I get depressed lonely and when I met my girlfriend she turned everything upside down that depression and sadness just lifted and she...

Anthony20108

Xper 4 Age: 25

Break Up & Divorce

How can I move on?

So I was with my ex for 5 months. We had a lot in common and we had the most fun on our dates. He met my mom and I really thought we was gonna be together for a long time. He recently broke up with me 3 months ago because...

Chocolatebunny98

Xper 4 Age: 25

What should I do about this situation with my Superior? Should I quit the job?

About 5 or 6 years ago I fell for my boss. I was 18 or 19 at the time and he was about 15 years older than me. I’m not sure if I love him or anything but I do have some feelings towards him. We didn’t do anything until we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys: why do you have a hard time accepting compliments from women?

I understand guys rarely get compliments from women. But I noticed that when a woman gives a compliment to a guy, they always act doubtful, as if she’s not being genuine, act awkward or take it as a joke. So why do you...

Anonymous

(30-35)