I sent my girlfriend a message saying that I think it's over between us because of the cold I'm feeling in our relationship, and that I'm hoping for all the best to her in her life.
I sent her this message because we didn't get to meet for so long.
She responded like this:
"Hi "MyName", it was very hard for me to find time to meet these days, I didn't want it to be like this. I'm also feeling the cold in our relationship"
Sometimes people loose feelings suddenly all at once. Then you need to think of the time how she fell in love with you and remind her and urge her to meet you and tell her why you love her. Trust me my boyfriend did this when I asked him if we can be on a break because feelings were fading as we did not meet each other often and he urged me to meet me reminded me of old times held my hand in his with all the love and from that day onwards we meet often once or twice a week. Love could fade away with time so please don’t have that huge gap otherwise it will be as good as long distance and yes give at least 30 minutes daily to talk to each other on the call :) that’s why me and my guy is doing. I love him so much , you know what resolving issues also strengthens bond trust and love
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talk to her about it. she might still want to make it work. ask her why she feels that way, what you can do to make her feel better. make sure she knows that you value her.
It means you both a are on the same page. Likely, pull away and assess waiting for the other to do something bonding and sweet... like flowers in person or delivered. I am guessing of course. Hope this relationship works out as you hoped.
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