Why doesn't she think she's beautiful?

Anonymous
Lately my girlfriend has been feeling down about herself. She feels like I shouldn't be attracted to her
She doesn't feel beautiful/sexy. Now matter how much I tell her she is she doesn't feel like she is. She feels like this because she has gained about 10-15 pounds. Ever since she started her birth control ( around Christmas time last year ) she just hasn't been feeling the same about herself. Her mood swings are not fun. At first our sex life was good, but now it's non-existent. Because she doesn't feel sexy, she feels that I don't think she is. So we haven't had sex in over two months. She doesn't even like when I get hard from cuddling, she says I'm just trying to make her feel better. How can I convince her she's still is beautiful/sexy. How can I convince her I'm still very much attacked to her
Why doesn't she think she's beautiful?
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