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As a life long Democrat, it's very disappointing that myself and other life long Democrats are now being labeled right wingers/Republicans, our political views/positions hasn't changed, but what has changed is the party has moved so far left, anyone who isn't an extreme leftist is now labeled a right winger/Republican.

So when I got this job I was in a tough spot. I was starving needed the money my brother was drinking himself to death, and I just left an abusive relationship. My PTSD was at its worst I was just trying to survive. So I didn't talk much but there were a few women there I thought were attractive but they didn't really seem to feel the same way and I just thought well that's not why I'm here anyway. Those same women were very rude and dismissive to me personally. It's a stressful job and I didn't talk much because of my aforementioned issues, but a lot of people took my depression and quiet nature for stupidity those women especially. Lately tho like all at once one liked me and then another some girl got a write up because she started hiking up her thong and swaying her hips in front of me. I didn't make a move because she was pretty aggressive about it and she not 3 months ago would act like I was a burden to her existence. When I didn't make a move and after she got written up went back to hating me but also trying to flirt then back to hating me again. That's basically been the same pattern with a few women there I work with. And it's only like this at work outside of work people are very kind and receptive to me. Another one was a girl I really liked I thought she was the most attractive girl I've ever seen but she was also probably the rudest person to me there out of everyone. Now she's doing this same shit, keeps staring at me when we are dressing up to enter the work room keeps running directly into me when she would always make a point to be across the room from me and never looking my way. Yesterday the power went out and everyone went to the hall I was feeling kinda shitty so I found my own spot to chill out and she walked all the way from where she was standing alone and stood right next to me kept looking at me and circling me waiting for me to say something to her. Why is she now acting this this after treating me like shit for about 8 months straight.

I have an ex right before I met my wife and after we broke up I deleted every pic I had of her and moved on. A couple months later my ex and I broke up, I couldn't stop thinking about her so I looked at her IG and she posted pictures that I had taken of her. Every few month since our breakup, I get bombarded with thoughts of her and I look at her social media and I see pics of places we've been together or pics I took of her. I don't think she wants to get together and I got over her fairly quick. I married someone this year that is perfect for me and have even stranger and stranger connection. I've thought about my ex twice since we broke up. The first time was on my birthday a couple months after our breakup and an hour later she wished me a happy birthday. The next time was yesterday when I saw a YouTube video showing a destination I went to with my ex and it was all the same places we visited together wo I started thinking about her and the places I visited with her. An hour after watching the video, she messaged me. I don't have the impression she wants to get back together but the connection we have is weird.

My wife and I have an even stronger connection. We've had people over to our house and for some reason I felt the need to food. Ten minutes after I did that, my wife asked me to order food and every time I've ordered, it's been from the place she's thinking of. This happens all the time and it's like we're in sync. But it gets even weirder when she starts answering questions that I've got in my head and before I can even ask, she's already answered my question, When I ask her about this she says that she knew what I was thinking. When we were long distance, she said that she could always feel me next to her. She always struggled being clingy and thought that was why she was single but when we started dating, she felt that I was always there and it cured her clinginess.

I'm curious if anyone else has had someone show up after you've thought about them.