Search Results: should i ask her out first date

Should I move on from my friends with benefits (read details pls!)?

Hi guys, it's me again (lol)! You may remember me from the previous 2 posts that I wrote about my friends with benefits first wanting to drop the benefits part of our relationship to take care of me better, and my second...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why can't men just be honest about their intentions from the start?

I met with this guy off a dating app in July we talked a little bit. And in August we had our first date we went out to eat. And then on our next date, I went to his house. We had sex (before we did he said he didn't want...

ChildofVenusxox

Xper 1 Age: 39

My boyfriend is distant at university. Is there any chance he puts me in the friendzone and what should I do?

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months now. It all started in summer holidays but 2 days ago we went to uni. We're new at uni and we had to socialize. So, we found a group of 10 friends half of which...

Melinara

Xper 4 Age: 21

Friends with benefits or is there anything more?

I have been seeing this guy for a month and a half. He is in my circle and we hug out (just the two of us since I met him) at least 4 times a week. We go for dinner, have deep conversations, have great sex and we lose...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can friends with benefits ever turn into something else?

My friend told me a few months ago that she met this guy and it was their first date they both did tell eachother prior to the date that they weren’t looking for a relationship or anything serious and they both just did...

Karenjjj

Xper 4 Age: 26

He never texts me first?

I met this guy at work, he's about 7yrs older than me and has a kid. We hit it off instantly, I actually ended up asking for his number, he said he was nervous to ask me because he didn't want to seem inappropriate. We...

7barbieringz

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guy rescheduled date for the second time does he deserve another chance?

So I’ve been talking to this guy I met on tinder for more than 3 weeks now and he gave me his number and he wanted to see me first so we decided this last Sunday we’d meet up and like two hrs before he tells me he got a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How should I ask her if we should clarify what we want from our dates if at all?

I finally jumped into the world of bumble. It was a strange place, but after 4 months I actually had a match that wasn't a bot scam from India. I matched with a girl I used to drink at the campus bar with in 2015 and we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ask him to go on a date?

I met this guy through dating app. On our first date, we had a long walk for almost 3 hours in a park which is beside his place. And then he kissed me and asked me to Netflix and chill. After a few days he asked me to his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Should I continue to flirt with him by doing this?

This guy is in one of my college classes that happen a couple of times a week. He’s very very different from the guys I’ve liked before. I usually date someone similar to me lol. Anyways he’s very strong on his beliefs in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

She asks me to book a hotel in the nearby city?

So, I am going on a first date with a girl I have been good friends with for over a year. Since we are already way past the getting-to-know each other phase, we have planned to go to a theater. Since there is no theater...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I block him or go through on meeting up with him?

So about 2 years ago, a guy on social media contacted me. He asked me out on a date but I declined and said I had a partner (of 8 years) . He said "that's okay, we can be friends ". I said cool. But during the course of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He doesn’t want to have kids but I do. Though I’m getting old and it’s getting more less likely for me to have kids. How do you accept childless life?

As I growing up, I thought I’d fall in love, get married, and having kids by now. Though the reality didn’t go as I planned. I’m 39, never been married and childless. I’ve been in a relationship for a year now. My...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this a good approach to asking a girl out?

There is a girl at the bar that I’ve seen around, but never really talked to for the past year and a half. I never talked to her because everytime I saw her she gave me a mean scowl. Until recently I brought it up to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Great date and communication til sudden no contact?

We texted non stop back and forth for 4 days before 1st date. He was the one who initiated. 1st date was a success. Discussion of 2nd date occurred after a few days of less texting taking place. He asked...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Had an impromptu date with a coworker that went very well. Today neither of us acknowledged it though?

First of all, yes we work together but it is very much a temporary and supremely carefree IT job. Everyone just does their shit in there quickly and leaves after they're done She is 35 I believe, I'm 33, She asked me to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating question. We started dating, I met his friends but a month before our first date he has been tagged to romantic photos with an other girl?

I have started dating that guy. I first met him 2 months ago. I liked him but I was in a relationship so I wasn't interested. I had realized that he like me also but he didn't make a move. I broke up with my ex a couple...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m 25 but men almost never approached me, flirt, or ask for my number?

First of all I know I look like I’m in college but I’m actually 25. Embarrassing to admit but I have never been in a relationship. I can count on one hand the number of dates I’ve been on! Even in college guys never...

Anonymous

(25-29)